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Look, if he doesn't want you because YOU slept with HIM "too soon" then he wouldn't have wanted you if you waited either. That's just an nonsensical excuse that certain men try to propagate to keep women off balance. It's also something women tell themselves when they have sex guilt. Neither has anything to do with a relationship working out.
If you both wanted to have sex with each other then it's not too soon. Playing games does nothing, it just postpones the inevitable.
I'll tell you something else too...the 3rd date rule has been used for generations without problems.
Well, I hope you are not referring to me being "that way", from why I stated, but this is based upon so much I have read and heard, coupled with own experiences (which appears to have worsened, as your friend remarked). Just interview enough women - I think after years of trying, dealing with and having been exposed to much, many cannot help feeling less than thrilled and are unfortunately, the outcome of such. Some know they are much better off without and are capable of living happily by themselves.
Good for those too, who may end up having experienced an "equal" long term. I believe we are all handed different experiences in life, some having this particular aspect work out for them, which is not to reflect upon a person who does not.
My comments about being bitter and jaded weren't directed at any one particular poster.
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