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guys, are you really so mean? you just had sex with that woman you're sending away with so poor consideration. What is wrong with you? just be nice and you could be friends and everything would be just fine
guys, are you really so mean? you just had sex with that woman you're sending away with so poor consideration. What is wrong with you? just be nice and you could be friends and everything would be just fine
guys, are you really so mean? you just had sex with that woman you're sending away with so poor consideration. What is wrong with you? just be nice and you could be friends and everything would be just fine
Most of the stuff you read here isn't real life, most people aren't so blatantly rude in real life.
So now my question is: What happens to guys after sex?
Ok.. Long time lurker; first time poster. I felt compelled to register this account just to respond to this post.
"What happens to guys after sex?" Well, nothing. He's probably laying there contemplating on a turkey sandwich or sleep.
On a serious note, you've entered the "booty call" zone, just as someone could find themselves in a "friend zone".
If you're enjoying the sex, then enjoy it, and stop mentally jousting about your decisions or his thoughts. If you're looking for more than sex, then be honest with yourself, and move on.
I will instant message you a paypal account to where you can send me $49.95 for the advice.
I am totally fine with the sex. the point is that the forth time we got together, he told me he wanted us to be just friends. that he was sorry that he had being distant and he was afraid things would get complicated. I know he had other reasons. I think he felt he wasnt free anymore, even if we just met for sex.
The point is that this weekend we are going to a concert together (first time we actually spend a lot of time together). we were supposed to be camping there afterwards, but the same night he told me he wanted to stop the sex, he also told me he was thinking that getting a room on a hotel was a better idea.
So now we are going to spend the night together in an hote room. which for the people I asked to means that of course we are going to have sex.
So on one side he's showing me that he wants to be my friend, on the other he's showing me that he wants to be free of any kind of relationship, even just sexual.
Oh I also want to add that he used to come to the place I work to get his lunch almost every week a few times a week after getting coffee next door, but he stopped coming complitely right after we had sex, even though he keeps going next door every day.
Is he just feeling embarassed? is he trying to show me that he doenst want any relationship? Because I say it again. He IS a nice guy!
I think that he thinks..... "if I keep telling her "no" and I just want to be friends, but we do it anyway, she can't blame me when I leave for someone I really like."
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He's clearly physically attracted to you. If you enjoy being with him, then be with him - no expectations. If he's too wishy-washy for you, then end it now. Relationships are organic, and some start slow and indecisive (the dude), some are a sudden, emotional and physical attraction.
Sounds like you currently have half of that. Why not see if the other half comes next?
Sex is so much better when you can share some laughs afterward instead of feeling the need to immediately leave. You're being used OP.
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