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Old 10-15-2015, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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Been on Tinder awhile I only had 1 lady not a good fit send me a discrete let's skip that and just grab a drink.

Had a few dates no matches but had a few fun, chuckles, and smooches. Could had all had I liked diff women.

People seem to be using Tinder in SoCal more like OKC we match but then you have to look close on the about to see when they were last online some now aren't online for 3 days so it makes it difficult to communicate because you can't sync up because you aren't logged in at same time.

I am taking a step back and focusing on other things so no worries........OLD.....never dull and never boring......sometimes like Jerry Springer
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Old 10-15-2015, 07:33 PM
 
Location: san diego
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Been on Tinder awhile I only had 1 lady not a good fit send me a discrete let's skip that and just grab a drink.

Had a few dates no matches but had a few fun, chuckles, and smooches. Could had all had I liked diff women.

People seem to be using Tinder in SoCal more like OKC we match but then you have to look close on the about to see when they were last online some now aren't online for 3 days so it makes it difficult to communicate because you can't sync up because you aren't logged in at same time.

I am taking a step back and focusing on other things so no worries........OLD.....never dull and never boring......sometimes like Jerry Springer
I agree, Tinder doesn't have the same kind of stigma here in SoCal as it seems to in some other parts of the country. It's just a vehicle for communication. If I think I like somebody, if they don't creep me out right away I'd be pretty quick to move it over to text/ phone.

OP: I don't like it when guys open with "Hello" or "Hi" - I think it shows more interest if they comment on something in my profile or one of my photos. Doesn't have to be clever, just something that shows they actually looked at my profile.
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Old 10-15-2015, 07:37 PM
 
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I don't believe this. You are being let known that the girl finds you attractive and you find her attractive so there is mutual attraction and the next step would be to find out if your personalities match. 99% of my matches don't contact me. Or if they do, they fade out after 2 or 3 messages. I have only met 1 person on there and the guy was actually looking for a relationship. And here men are, complaining about being single. I swear, people just like to complain.
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Old 10-15-2015, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Omaha
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I think it shows more interest if they comment on something in my profile or one of my photos. Doesn't have to be clever, just something that shows they actually looked at my profile.
Good info. Boys, you heard it here first
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Old 10-15-2015, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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I agree, Tinder doesn't have the same kind of stigma here in SoCal as it seems to in some other parts of the country. It's just a vehicle for communication. If I think I like somebody, if they don't creep me out right away I'd be pretty quick to move it over to text/ phone.

OP: I don't like it when guys open with "Hello" or "Hi" - I think it shows more interest if they comment on something in my profile or one of my photos. Doesn't have to be clever, just something that shows they actually looked at my profile.

Good I do that. I try and find something clever to say about your profile or pics to show that I am not just swiping away and women seem to appreciate that.

I have an attractive match but based on the times she is logged in she is either a bot or we have very different schedules which probably won't mesh

I may just give her my google voice screen her for bots/scams and proceed forward we'll see.
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Old 10-15-2015, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Sometimes I'll Rick roll a girl pretending it's a hilarious tinder parody video on YouTube. If she has a sense of humor, that usually goes over well and then I'll share the actual parody video. And then we can talk about our favorite parts of the video and let the conversation progress from there.

Sometimes I'll talk about a shared interest or something I found unique about her profile.

Sometimes I'll be very direct and ask why she's on here and what she's specially looking for. And I'll say that if she can't provide a straightforward answer, then I'm not interested in getting to know her any better.

Sometimes I'll tell an interesting lie about myself. I never keep it up too long before confessing, but by then it doesn't matter because we've established some good vibes.

Securing a phone number should be the goal. To do that, I simply tell her that this app kills my battery (which it does). And then I'll ask if she trusts me with her phone number.
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