Would you say that it's inappropriate to ask a woman who you don't know to sleep with you if this is your reasoning? ... (attractive, college)

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

... cause normal rational people don't expect a woman to "give him some" just cause he's sportin wood.

Yep. That's the point.

[cindersslipper]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Don't equate asking a woman for sex, albeit in a clumsy fashion, with rape.

Sort of downplays rape a bit.

I didn't.

It was the "she is asking for it" tone that I didn't like.

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Well, either this guy is pulling 80's on the IQ scale or he's pulling chains.... cause normal rational people don't expect a woman to "give him some" just cause he's sportin wood.

That's true, and I don't take dropping the "r" word lightly, but many guys who sexually assault women don't hide in the bushes with a knife. They're guys who want what they want when they want it, and they don't care about what she wants at that particular time. We can only hope the OP is clueful enough that he doesn't cross that line, but his wording is a little creepy.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

That's true, and I don't take dropping the "r" word lightly, but many guys who sexually assault women don't hide in the bushes with a knife. They're guys who want what they want when they want it, and they don't care about what she wants at that particular time. We can only hope the OP is clueful enough that he doesn't cross that line, but his wording is a little creepy.

That was my point too, don't drop the word rape around light, saying "rapey" even sort of doesn't sit well with me, but I get it.

Yeah, I actually hope that guy is fully creepy in real life, as it hopefully it piques on women's radars... if that makes any sense...

[cindersslipper]

Originally Posted by LowTune

Every time I see a woman is some short skirt with dark nylons, it reminds me of how unfair and cruel the universe is. If she's going to prance around like that in front of me, she could at least offer to give me some. It's not like I'm visibly aroused (hard) for no reason.
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OP blames the woman entirely, for his own reactions.

Which is how rapists think.

[Zennia]

Originally Posted by mishigas73

Frankly, I'd question the mental state of a woman who would be swayed by something like this.

I'd question the mental state of any man who would even consider asking it.

[homina12]

Originally Posted by cindersslipper

OP blames the woman entirely, for his own reactions.

Which is how rapists think.

I agree. This thread seems (who tf knows what's serious or not???) to have gone from oafishly jokey to a bit Ted Bundy. Yikes. Unless that comment (if you arouse me I get some) is more oafishness. Confusion.

[cindersslipper]

Welp, they're out there somewhere, looking like normal human beings.

Puts a whole new creep factor to "have a woman in every city" though....

[Zennia]

Originally Posted by LowTune

Every time I see a woman is some short skirt with dark nylons, it reminds me of how unfair and cruel the universe is. If she's going to prance around like that in front of me, she could at least offer to give me some. It's not like I'm visibly aroused (hard) for no reason.

Let me guess: This now-now former member lives in the Philadalphia area and is a fan of LPs.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by Zennia

I'd question the mental state of any man who would even consider asking it.

We're splitting hairs here, both sides of this equation are pretty much mental...