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Old 10-18-2015, 05:20 PM
 
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The truth hurts.

Any woman not attracted to me its her loss; not mine. It's not personal.
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Old 10-18-2015, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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The vast majority of "average Joes" will date multiple women, have several relationships and get married, OP. That means that some women really like and are highly attracted to them. The dude sitting at the table a few yards away may seem like an average Joe in your eyes...but he's really awesome, hot and something special in the eyes of the beautiful woman (his girlfriend) sitting across from him. Oh and BTW, and she actually knows him quite well, unlike you.

On the other hand, I don't think there's very many women out there who like guys with poor attitudes like yours.

Get over yourself.
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Old 10-18-2015, 05:34 PM
 
Location: southern california
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If there is one thing a fat rude loud uncouth American can't stand
It's another
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Old 10-18-2015, 05:35 PM
 
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the vast majority of "average joes" will date multiple women, have several relationships and get married, op. That means that some women really like and are highly attracted to them. The dude sitting at the table a few yards away may seem like an average joe in your eyes...but he's really awesome, hot and something special in the eyes of the beautiful woman (his girlfriend) sitting across from him. Oh and btw, and she actually knows him quite well, unlike you.

On the other hand, i don't think there's very many women out there who like guys with poor attitudes like yours.

Get over yourself.
this.
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Old 10-18-2015, 05:35 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Get over yourself.
I agree, this thread, besides being factually incorrect, is also beyond obnoxious as well
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Old 10-18-2015, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Thank you, OP. Now I know! *Everyone together: "AND KNOWING IS HALF OF THE BATTLE!"



YoooooooooooooooooooooooooooOOOOOOOO JOE!


lol
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Old 10-18-2015, 06:23 PM
 
Location: TN
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My husband when we met was a broke college student, 5'8", he was wearing a lavalava. Look it up. It's basically a male skirt.

I thought, what a dork. Wait....what kind of guy does that? I'm going to talk to him. Wow, he's really funny. Huh, what a great conversationalist. Well I'll be darn, he is pretty smart too. Oh, and look at that azz, nice.


I was a pretty smoking hot, much thinner than I am now, tall blonde who had just broken up with another short guy who was a smoking hot Fillipino. We didn't work out because he was intimidated by the fact I was better at school and academics than he was and his family didn't like him dating a tall white girl.

I have never dated a guy because of his looks. It was always something about him, musical talent, ability to hold a conversation with me for hours, wit, interests he had that I didn't but was willing to have him teach me about. I've been attracted to big guys, skinny guys, average to below average looking guys, smoking hot guys, academically sucessful guys, guys with more practical intelligence etc.

The only consistency was height. I don't like tall guys. Go figure.
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Old 10-18-2015, 06:27 PM
 
Location: TN
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If I can find one, I'll post a picture of me back then. I didn't appreciate it at the time, but I was really attractive. Maybe because I had issues with recognizing my attractiveness I was more willing to pursue a guy because of his personality and not how attractive I thought he was physically. Perhaps women who know they are attractive feel a need to date men who are their equal in looks?
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Old 10-18-2015, 06:30 PM
 
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The truth hurts.

Any woman not attracted to me its her loss; not mine. It's not personal.
*Applauds*
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Old 10-18-2015, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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My husband when we met was a broke college student, 5'8", he was wearing a lavalava. Look it up. It's basically a male skirt.

I thought, what a dork. Wait....what kind of guy does that? I'm going to talk to him. Wow, he's really funny. Huh, what a great conversationalist. Well I'll be darn, he is pretty smart too. Oh, and look at that azz, nice.


I was a pretty smoking hot, much thinner than I am now, tall blonde who had just broken up with another short guy who was a smoking hot Fillipino. We didn't work out because he was intimidated by the fact I was better at school and academics than he was and his family didn't like him dating a tall white girl.

I have never dated a guy because of his looks. It was always something about him, musical talent, ability to hold a conversation with me for hours, wit, interests he had that I didn't but was willing to have him teach me about. I've been attracted to big guys, skinny guys, average to below average looking guys, smoking hot guys, academically sucessful guys, guys with more practical intelligence etc.

The only consistency was height. I don't like tall guys. Go figure.


Hm. Your husband sounds like me, but switch the lavalava for a kilt. lol
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