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Depends on what he did and why he's in there. Have known people who got mixed up in this kind of relationship and few work out but end badly. Some got started by becoming pen pals with a prisoner. They have a tendency to be serving time and totally innocent and basically looking to the outside for help when getting out. Can't give you advise as don't know much from your letter. You sound needy just by the length of your letter and that's a red flag to me. You will do what you want regard less.You don't seem to know or care what he did nor how long he will be incarcerated and your fixation is scarey.
Depends on what he did and why he's in there. Have known people who got mixed up in this kind of relationship and few work out but end badly. Some got started by becoming pen pals with a prisoner. They have a tendency to be serving time and totally innocent and basically looking to the outside for help when getting out. Can't give you advise as don't know much from your letter. You sound needy just by the length of your letter and that's a red flag to me. You will do what you want regard less.You don't seem to know or care what he did nor how long he will be incarcerated and your fixation is scarey.
we have been friends for eight years..of those eight years ...hes either liked me or been in love i dont kno on and off...its not a pen pal thing..as i know him..i know what he did he told me...he shouldnt have got involved but he was helping someone out and it was self defence... i tried to move on but its hard when i had someone who wanted to marry me for such a long amount of time...im not talking months its been years..so u cnt really call me needy as its quite unfair.
i knew him as a person befre he went inside and he is quite decent and we built up a strong friendship
we have been friends for eight years..of those eight years ...hes either liked me or been in love i dont kno on and off...its not a pen pal thing..as i know him..i know what he did he told me...he shouldnt have got involved but he was helping someone out and it was self defence... i tried to move on but its hard when i had someone who wanted to marry me for such a long amount of time...im not talking months its been years..so u cnt really call me needy as its quite unfair.
i knew him as a person befre he went inside and he is quite decent and we built up a strong friendship
not properly no..but after he left a six page letter was sent to his house..with everything in it..
he didnt actually mention it when i visited him yet he continued to ask why i went to all the trouble of finding him..and i just said i wanted to know whathappened..and hes like now that you kno now what...n i was lik i dont kno...
it was just weird.before all this he would be the one being open...but then again he hasnt really been open tomy face..its more been through txt messging and on the phone..
I know it's not what you want to hear... But.. He is telling to to move on.. and that is what you should do.
Anytime I have ever told someone that.. That is exactly what I wanted to happen.
I am guessing that at some time he was in love with you, and probably didn't feel it was reciprocated, so, he moved on. He didn't want you to see what he has become, but, probably still missed your connection. So, yes, mixed signals for sure.
He spent 6 years telling you how he felt. Now you have decided that he should somehow keep banging his head against the same wall over and over again.
If he is smart, he finally figure out it makes zero sense to tell a women you are into her, while she pretends not to be.
Best thing for him would be to cut you out of his life.
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