Parents divorce - a lesson to never trust anyone ever

[CaptainHart]

Originally Posted by beweirdess

My parents should have divorced a long time ago, but they didn't. Don't let someone's bad experience make you cold-hearted though. I personally am not a big pro-marriage person, but commitment and being in a LTR with someone is totally possible, and you should at least give yourself a chance. It may work or not, and in fact you can use your parents' experience to know how to NOT Fk up a relationship. I think it's a sad life to live without letting someone close to your heart, to the point where you actually want to share your life with them. Failure is not universal, and it is also not permanent. Sometimes it takes a few failures to learn lessons and be OK in the end.

The problem is that "giving it a chance" might be all it takes to ruin your life forever.

[GiGi603]

Originally Posted by CaptainHart

If I can't get that on my own there's always prostitutes.

I am sure that is a good solution

Originally Posted by CaptainHart

... that guy who got my mother pregnant is finally moving out next week.
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I was around my mid thirties when I suddenly realized it really wasn't all my father's fault. Then I got a bit angry realizing I had been manipulated into thinking that.

Then I realized that I was powerful enough to make my own life and decide how it was going to go. Just because you had a lousy childhood does not mean you will have a lousy adulthood.