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Old 01-18-2016, 06:34 PM
 
Location: The State Of California
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wouldn't be offended but are there lots of women out there that want 3 hour sex?
Yes if you are slow and gentle and give
her foreplay and afterplay.
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Old 01-18-2016, 07:23 PM
 
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The other day I had a one night stand but I secretly took a viagra pill to last for 3 hours.
But how would a girl feel if I had to use viagra all the time to have sex with her?
Would she get offended or mad or be understanding about it?
dude, stop worrying about what women think when it comes to how you take care of your best friend.
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Old 01-19-2016, 05:37 AM
 
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Yes if you are slow and gentle and give
her foreplay and afterplay.
No 3 hours is too long, trust me!
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Old 01-19-2016, 07:34 AM
 
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Isn't this often a medical issue and not necessarily an arousal issue? i.e. what gets in the way is sometimes simply not being turned on and sometimes being turned on might not work due to a medical issue. So it might be "she doesn't turn him on" (i.e. mental/emotional) or it might be something physical and one should not jump to a false conclusion.
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Old 01-19-2016, 10:38 AM
 
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As long as shes getting properly getting laid, I don't think she would mind.
I took it last weekend for the 1st time. I am 62.
After about 4 sessions in one night, my gf said to continue using it.

Confided to me that her father, brother-in-law and a friend all use it.
2 of them are younger than me.

If it puts lead in the pencil, who cares as long as you have fun and get the fun done.
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Old 01-19-2016, 10:47 AM
 
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Isn't this often a medical issue and not necessarily an arousal issue? i.e. what gets in the way is sometimes simply not being turned on and sometimes being turned on might not work due to a medical issue. So it might be "she doesn't turn him on" (i.e. mental/emotional) or it might be something physical and one should not jump to a false conclusion.
Let me be clear, I do know consciously it's not my fault if a guy has issues, however it still just takes a lot of the fantasy aspect away from it and it's not as much fun as it is when I'm with a guy who can barely control himself with me. It's more enjoyable when I can feel sexy and hot and desirable, and if the guy stays soft (or conversely, can't orgasm and it just goes on an on) it is hard to feel that way even if I know consciously it's his issue. I don't think it'd be much different for a guy...you have a girl in your bed telling you how hot she is for you...but before anything can happen she has to pull out lube and says "sorry, dry as a bone down there since I turned 40"..the guy is still going to be a bit disappointed, right? I'd tell that woman to put the lube in ahead of time rather than announce it.


Again it is one thing in a committed relationship...after a while it is not unexpected issues will arrive...but the first few sexual sessions, I'd rather think you're hotter then heck for me
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Old 01-19-2016, 10:57 AM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Let me be clear, I do know consciously it's not my fault if a guy has issues, however it still just takes a lot of the fantasy aspect away from it and it's not as much fun as it is when I'm with a guy who can barely control himself with me. It's more enjoyable when I can feel sexy and hot and desirable, and if the guy stays soft (or conversely, can't orgasm and it just goes on an on) it is hard to feel that way even if I know consciously it's his issue.
I definitely know the appeal of all that. It's one reason I'm glad I'm poly, because it's easier to cope with partners who have some difficulties, when I have one who does not have issues and finishes easily.

I've been wanting to ask men who have taken Viagra, what it's like... I mean, I know physically what the effect is on the anatomy. But when it comes to the finale, is it easier to get off? More difficult? Normal? Does it have any effect on sensation or climax?

I'm trying to be kind of clinical and not too um...explicit here... I don't prefer partners who just go and go and go and go and it takes forever for them to finish. I would rather one who could get up, get where he's going, play and snuggle and such, get up again after a while, lather rinse repeat. I'm wanting to know if Viagra affects more than just...rigidity. If anyone has input but doesn't want to discuss in open forum, feel free to PM. I'm curious.
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Old 01-19-2016, 12:19 PM
 
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I don't care what he does, as long as the soldier 'salutes' when it's time to get it...
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Old 01-19-2016, 01:00 PM
 
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No 3 hours is too long, trust me!
OP's comment about that was obviously wishful thinking, like the blue pill would keep the woody going that long. His comments and this post also seems to suggest he doesn't have much experience with this stuff (and maybe even with performance and endurance). two pops isn't out of the question with a sandwich break in between. lol
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Old 01-19-2016, 06:08 PM
 
Location: Sputnik Planitia
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I tried Viagra and it did virtually nothing for me, infact I had a zero response to it and I mean ZERO - 0%. In contrast, without Viagra I have a 70-80% response, I was expecting to get it to 100% with the drug. I think part of the issue was that I spent $50 on a single pill and that caused anxiety of whether it would work or not, if my money was going to go down the drain - that in itself cancelled my response to zero. What an ridiculous irony!
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