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It isn't impossible to get married as a single mom, but you cannot go at it with the mindset of "looking for a daddy for the kids."
You have to meet someone who is nice to your kids, is fine with being a stepparent, but is ultimately someone who likes you enough to overlook the extra baggage that comes with marrying a parent.
It is not at all impossible, but daddy shopping? Not gonna turn out well.
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Ok come to walmart with me. I will prove it to you. I attract crazy people and don't even need to open my mouth.
Dysfunction seeks out dysfunction. Dysfunctional people can sniff out others who are also dysfunctional. Attracting these kinds of people is a good gauge of where you are regarding this.
When you quit attracting crazy dysfunctional people into your life will be the time you will know you have moved into a more healthy state. Only after that happens will you start to attract the non-dysfunctional guys into your life. That's when you should think about settling down with a life partner, not before. Anything before that will just be more dysfunction.
Is it possible he is with you because you are there, it is convenient, he didn't have to do much to impress you or put ANY effort into the relationship? I am not sure if I express myself correctly to bring my point across.
Example: I have a lot of coworkers hitting on me. Not because I am so great (wellll ...) but because it is convenient, we have the same culture (they are also German) and they are too lazy to go out and find a woman. Why not take what's right in front of them?
If he would be totally crazy for you, he would do whatever it takes to live with you and see you more often.
You have nailed it. She is a convienience and he knows she is desperate enough to put up with it. It's a shame.
I recently made small talk and was polite to a man that tried to kill me. Do I wish him out of my life? Absolutely. But it does no one any good for me to be vengeful and nasty to him. He is damaged and does not need me to point it out. Find the good in people even if it is really hard to spot.
Another reason people act crazy to you. Because you let them get their foot in the door. That's all they need... just the first step and they will take care of the rest.
Another reason people act crazy to you. Because you let them get their foot in the door. That's all they need... just the first step and they will take care of the rest.
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"Well, hey, Jethro. How's it going? Still got that shotgun?"
Another reason people act crazy to you. Because you let them get their foot in the door. That's all they need... just the first step and they will take care of the rest.
We share a child and the courts force me to keep him in my life.
I share kids with my ex and I haven't spoken to him in person in years. He gets the kids every other weekend, but not from me.
If we MUST communicate, it is via email or text. That is also rare.
Basically, if you really wanted to avoid him, you could.
Not that's it any of your business..I am the only one that can do the switch. We were in court with our lawyers present. The judge frowns upon me ignoring him. I try to but rules are different these days
Not that's it any of your business..I am the only one that can do the switch. We were in court with our lawyers present. The judge frowns upon me ignoring him. I try to but rules are different these days
Well to be frank, any time you put something online, it becomes the world's business, since you have put it out there. And people will comment and judge. It comes with the territory.
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) but because it is convenient, we have the same culture (they are also German) and they are too lazy to go out and find a woman. Why not take what's right in front of them? 
