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Old 10-24-2015, 09:17 AM
 
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I have decided to go through with it not bsc you of the bs guilt you are trying to impose on me for "forcing her into something she did not want" (she agreed and consented at the end of the day) but bsc a) I dont want to hurt her since I know that she tends to blow things out of proportion when she believes I am putting my ego first (in this case its not ego but feeling insecurity and uncofortable about being f@cked by a dude,its not like I do this everyday)b) I am afraid that she might break up with me eventually due to her supressed anger.

I strongly believe she doesnt give a flying f@ck about watching two guys having sex.It's all about my behavior towards her

Are you purposely NOT understanding that you FORCED her to do something she did not want to do simply because you continued to nag and pressure her until she gave in, no matter what "she agreed to at the end of the day"?

Are you possibly so dense?

 
Old 10-24-2015, 09:25 AM
 
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So I pressured my gf to have recently sex with a girl while I was watching.She actually did it after endless debates (with one of our common friends).Problem is that in order to get her to do it I promised that I would have sex with a guy but I never thought that she would insist SO much in me going through with it.Now she really really pressuring me to have sex with one of my closest friends (who's gay and has apparently teamed up with her in this).What should I do to avoid this?I know its double standards if I dont do it but still its very difficult for me to have sex with a dude (she complained about the same when i was pressuring to have sex with a girl).Or should I just do it to shut her up?
Not sure why you would have pressured you gf to have sex with a girl so you could watch? You could have gotton a porn movie and not put a wedge now in your relationship. How old are you people or kids? Next time you want weird hire a hooker. You all are in need of therapy, and your girlfriend needs to run not walk away from you. You havent got the maturity or class to be dating or having sex with women. Think you are more into the bisexual aspect or gay lifestyle. Whatever floats your boat.
 
Old 10-24-2015, 09:27 AM
 
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So I pressured my gf to have recently sex with a girl while I was watching.She actually did it after endless debates (with one of our common friends).Problem is that in order to get her to do it I promised that I would have sex with a guy but I never thought that she would insist SO much in me going through with it.Now she really really pressuring me to have sex with one of my closest friends (who's gay and has apparently teamed up with her in this).What should I do to avoid this?I know its double standards if I dont do it but still its very difficult for me to have sex with a dude (she complained about the same when i was pressuring to have sex with a girl).Or should I just do it to shut her up?
Young man, there's no need to feel down.
I said, young man, pick yourself off the ground.
I said, young man, what goes round comes around,
There's no need to be unhappy.

Young man, off to bed you will go.
I said, young man, with a guy you will blow,
You can stay there, and I'm sure you will find
Many ways to have a good time...
 
Old 10-24-2015, 09:39 AM
 
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I can't go through many more pages of this nonsense, so tell me really quickly...how is what you are anguished about or mentally disturbed about or will be scarred about any different than what you asked your gf to do?

Listen I am not homophobic in any way and proof of this is that one of my closest friends is gay but u need to understand that is not easy for a straight dude to decide to be penetrated by another male.Ok I admit I misscalculated things and found myself in this situation.Maybe I am afraid that being f@cked by a dude would insult my "manhood" so to speak.Surely it cant be the same two girls having non penetrative sex and two guys guys f@cking each other up the ass.If it was a case of me being the only one doing my gay friend then I would be much more inclined to go through this without so much hesitation.Getting penetrated is a different story all together
 
Old 10-24-2015, 09:40 AM
 
Location: TN
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Not sure why you would have pressured you gf to have sex with a girl so you could watch? You could have gotton a porn movie and not put a wedge now in your relationship. How old are you people or kids? Next time you want weird hire a hooker. You all are in need of therapy, and your girlfriend needs to run not walk away from you. You havent got the maturity or class to be dating or having sex with women. Think you are more into the bisexual aspect or gay lifestyle. Whatever floats your boat.
He claims he is 34!!! 30 freaking 4, types like a 14 year old and whines like a 12 year old. I pray to Og that OP isn't a parent and is really just an adolescent prankster trolling the CD forum for sh*ts and giggles.
 
Old 10-24-2015, 09:44 AM
 
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I am 34 get over it
 
Old 10-24-2015, 09:46 AM
 
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If it was a case of me being the only one doing my gay friend then I would be much more inclined to go through this without so much hesitation.Getting penetrated is a different story all together
Oh, so being penetrated is somehow "less than?"

Hmmm...
 
Old 10-24-2015, 09:47 AM
 
Location: TN
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I am 34 get over it
Then act like it.
 
Old 10-24-2015, 09:47 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Oh, so being penetrated is somehow "less than?"

Hmmm...
Maybe it's a domination thing?
 
Old 10-24-2015, 09:49 AM
 
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Originally Posted by luv my dayton View Post
Not sure why you would have pressured you gf to have sex with a girl so you could watch? You could have gotton a porn movie and not put a wedge now in your relationship. How old are you people or kids? Next time you want weird hire a hooker. You all are in need of therapy, and your girlfriend needs to run not walk away from you. You havent got the maturity or class to be dating or having sex with women. Think you are more into the bisexual aspect or gay lifestyle. Whatever floats your boat.
I am heavy into lesbian porn,thats true.One of greatest fantasies was watching two girls having sex and used to fixate a lot on having this with my gf.She is not the only gf I pressured into doing this,she is however the first one to cave in.
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