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Old 10-25-2015, 05:28 PM
 
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Be yourself, relax, and have fun with it! Stop trying so hard.
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Old 10-25-2015, 05:28 PM
 
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I'm sure that you are way too selective. You could have sex within a week or two if you really focused on having sex. Some selectivity is good, but I'm betting you've passed up some decent men over the past 3 years.
Sure, I could go out and get laid. But that's not what I'm seeking. I want frequent good sex with a partner that cares about me.
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Old 10-25-2015, 05:30 PM
 
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Well wanting an atheist takes out about 95% of the population. No wonder you can't find anyone
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Old 10-25-2015, 05:34 PM
 
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How about friends with benefits? It can be someone who cares about you but doesn't want anything serious. Leaves you open to finding "the one" and satisfies your needs. There are plenty of decent guys out there, shouldn't be too hard finding one that's looking for the same thing.
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Old 10-25-2015, 05:36 PM
 
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Well wanting an atheist takes out about 95% of the population. No wonder you can't find anyone
I guess I should rephrase. He doesn't have to be an atheist, but cannot be a religious, church-going, mentally ill, lunatic.
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Old 10-25-2015, 05:37 PM
 
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How about friends with benefits? It can be someone who cares about you but doesn't want anything serious. Leaves you open to finding "the one" and satisfies your needs. There are plenty of decent guys out there, shouldn't be too hard finding one that's looking for the same thing.
Thing is I get attached. When I was younger I could hit it and quit it. But the past two people I slept with I really liked...they hurt me and I've walled up.
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Old 10-25-2015, 05:37 PM
 
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Why an atheist? Religious beliefs, or lack thereof, should not be a factor! You're looking for a good sexual-fulfilling relationship, not going to church! What do you care of his religion? Long as he doesn't shove it down your throat, leave it be!
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Old 10-25-2015, 05:39 PM
 
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Why an atheist? Religious beliefs, or lack thereof, should not be a factor! You're looking for a good sexual-fulfilling relationship, not going to church! What do you care of his religion? Long as he doesn't shove it down your throat, leave it be!
Like I just said, NO RELIGION, retracting the atheist part. I grew up in a cult and this is a total dealbreaker. I know I'm not alone, especially on these forums with this issue. It is a HUGE factor if both aren't on the same page in a relationship!!!!! I'm not looking for a ONS. I want a relationship!!!
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Old 10-25-2015, 05:39 PM
 
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And seriously ask yourself, do you want a steady, exclusive boyfriend or a friend with benefits?
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Old 10-25-2015, 05:42 PM
 
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And seriously ask yourself, do you want a steady, exclusive boyfriend or a friend with benefits?
Definitely a boyfriend!!
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