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I'm in my late 20s, he in his mid 30s. Well I can't even enjoy sex much anymore because of this negative stigma toward me from society. I try not to put out early anymore if I want a long term with the guy. I've also lost a lot of interest in OLD, dating in general, and this forum. I still stay open minded to people but I just think dating is BS.
A few years ago I was so heart broken over this one guy who saw me as a **** because I put out early. I became jaded about sex after him and just couldn't love it like I used to. He contacted me a few weeks ago asking how I was doing and made it sound like he had a gf and they were hitting it off. He kept trying to "catch up" with me but we never did. I just found out he was on Tinder and had super liked me. Maybe they were looking for a threesome or something I don't know.
Definitely can't take dating seriously anymore.
The guy was a jerk if he saw you as a s*** just because (god forbid) you had sex early. I wish more women would be more sexually open like that, but this society shames that (while guys get away with it). F*** double standards..
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Unmatching on Tinder after hooking up, that is a good reason not to use it. For me anyway. It's a waste of time. The whole hookup thing isn't producing anything long lasting.
I still don't understand why it is a good reason. I've always exchanged phone numbers and we texted, so there was no reason to be on tinder together anymore.
And hookups do produce long lasting relationships. Absolutely they do.
Answering fan mail since I don't know who wrote this on my reps:
"Gross. Are you sure you don't have any STDs? I bet you had over a 100 sex partners. Sickening! If you keep up like this, you will be alone forever. Didn't your parents teach you any values?"
Yup, I'm clean, I just got tested for STDs. I would suggest you do the same but no need for virgins to do so. Unfortunately I'm too picky to sleep with that many people, you probably being one of those I wouldn't bother with. Being alone wouldn't be the worst thing. It's being ugly and hateful that would make me want to kill myself. My parents raised me to treat people right. Yours obviously didn't so shame on them. If I were you I would ask your parents for a refund.
I still don't understand why it is a good reason. I've always exchanged phone numbers and we texted, so there was no reason to be on tinder together anymore.
And hookups do produce long lasting relationships. Absolutely they do.
That's true. Studies show that 60% of the time, it works every time.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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That's true. Studies show that 60% of the time, it works every time.
I don't put stats on it, but I see it in the weddings I go to, like the wedding I'm going to next month in Asheville. It, like many I've been to, started as a "hook up".
I don't put stats on it, but I see it in the weddings I go to, like the wedding I'm going to next month in Asheville. It, like many I've been to, started as a "hook up".
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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You should work for IAC.
I do not know what IAC is.
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