Wife is depressed, has defaulted on student loans and is working under the table. (daughter, responsible)

[ellie]

I just read a little about the consequences of defaulting on a student loan. Maybe you should too.

[April R]

She's being utterly selfish. She needs to get help for her depression or your marriage will go down in flames.

[mochamajesty]

Originally Posted by OutdoorsyGal

Your legal drama is getting old, you are like a broken record.

So far no one has said abuse has occured, you are aware of this. Nice man strawman attempt.

Actually read the posts instead of sentence pushing your inhumane agenda against these Toddlers

Yes the situation is dire, try to keep up.

I have no idea what you mean by your first sentence. What legal drama?

And you are actually advocating breaking the law?

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by OutdoorsyGal

Your legal drama is getting old, you are like a broken record.

So far no one has said abuse has occured, you are aware of this. Nice strawman attempt.

Actually read the posts instead of pushing your inhumane agenda against these Toddlers

Yes the situation is dire, try to keep up.

They aren't starving. He said she makes good money and buys stuff for the girls.

You're giving horrible advice and attacking other posters.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by OutdoorsyGal

Nothing you are saying truthful. No one is attacking anyone either. Nor did anyone say they were "starving"

Originally Posted by OutdoorsyGal

Yes advocating for people starving their Toddlers, SHAME ON YOU
That is called CHILD ABUSE and it is ILLEGAL.

Read your own comments before commenting.

You have no credibility.

Good-bye.

[OutdoorsyGal]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Read your own comments before commenting.

You have no credibility.

Good-bye.

Have a good evening

[mochamajesty]

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Originally Posted by OutdoorsyGal

I haven't engaged in any discussion about the legalities of these toddlers eating nutritious food.

No, but you are advocating that the wife not report her under the table income and apply for state aid.

And who says that they are not eating nutritious food now?

What exactly did you mean by "take advantage of" working under the table?

[reen79]

eeshhh 55k? not to mention the interest that is going to accumulate on those loans...being married to her you also accumulate all that debt now...she needs to snap out of it and start paying that sucker..

[OutdoorsyGal]

Originally Posted by mochamajesty

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No, but you are advocating that the wife not report her under the table income and apply for state aid.

And who says that they are not eating nutritious food now?

What exactly did you mean by "take advantage of" working under the table?

No one said that but you. More strawmen. If you want me to start rep-ing you with links, cut & pasted from
back posts, I can. Or message you over and over w/the same links. But let's allow the thread to continue instead

[April R]

Originally Posted by reen79

eeshhh 55k? not to mention the interest that is going to accumulate on those loans...being married to her you also accumulate all that debt now...she needs to snap out of it and start paying that sucker..

She needs to snap out of it and get a job. There are jobs in nursing that require little to no actual interactions with patients if that is her issue.
Personally it sounds like PPD to me. OP should worry about leaving her alone with the kids in the state of mind she seems to be in. Not saying she'll harm them, but she may get overwhelmed. Hopefully he has someone that can check in on her during the day when he's at work.