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Whenever I go out anywhere or I browse profiles online , I rarely see anyone that I find attractive anymore. People that I used to see that were my type , I barely get excited at seeing them or finding them attractive. I am 33 and I am scared I am going to be single for the rest of my life because I just have a hard time finding anyone physically attractive. I know its not all about the physical but attraction has to start somewhere in order for me to approach anyone. I hope this is just a stage. I think part of the problem could be looking at too much porn
Whenever I go out anywhere or I browse profiles online , I rarely see anyone that I find attractive anymore. People that I used to see that were my type , I barely get excited at seeing them or finding them attractive. I am 33 and I am scared I am going to be single for the rest of my life because I just have a hard time finding anyone physically attractive. I know its not all about the physical but attraction has to start somewhere in order for me to approach anyone. I hope this is just a stage. I think part of the problem could be looking at too much porn
This is truly sad... as we are surrounded by lots of people that should be attractive at least.... that doesn't mean super hot, but at least attractive.... to not see that around you is really sad.
What is the standard you're using to measure attractiveness? Models, actresses, celebrities...?
oh hell no....most of the people i have been attracted to definitely don't look like models or celebs. I like them fat and the way their face should look regular..most celebs are too pretty or handsome for me .
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Originally Posted by Chowhound
This is truly sad... as we are surrounded by lots of people that should be attractive at least.... that doesn't mean super hot, but at least attractive.... to not see that around you is really sad.
I've actually noticed exactly this type of thing as I've gotten older; I'm a lot pickier about a woman's appearance than I used to be. When I was younger, I would date almost any woman. Now that I'm in my mid-40's and have dated so many women over the years, I guess I know what type of woman I'm looking for - and there are very few out there that I'm into. I'm not into the skinny, Hollywood mainstream look, but these days I'm exclusively into larger BBW's. However, it takes a special kind of BBW to catch my eye.
Also, having been through a lot of bad relationships over the years, I have realized that just because a woman is hot, that doesn't mean she's nice or easy to get along with - in fact, quite the opposite. The most attractive women out there (or at least the ones that are considered attractive by the mainstream media) can actually be truly horrible people.
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I like them fat and the way their face should look regular..most celebs are too pretty or handsome for me .
What does that mean? Fat with regular looking face? So a big body with a regular/average face? The US is filled with those...or do you mean a fat woman, with a regular sized woman's head/face...so you want the fluffy body, but not the fluffy face?
I am the same way.initial physical attraction is driving force for me to find out more about the guy.If I can't picture myself french kissing the guy then forget it
I can see where is OP is coming from , like it or not people notice looks first before anything else.Its not all about looks ofcourse but everyone deserves someone they can't wait to rip his or her clothes off
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Whenever I go out anywhere or I browse profiles online , I rarely see anyone that I find attractive anymore. People that I used to see that were my type , I barely get excited at seeing them or finding them attractive. I am 33 and I am scared I am going to be single for the rest of my life because I just have a hard time finding anyone physically attractive. I know its not all about the physical but attraction has to start somewhere in order for me to approach anyone. I hope this is just a stage. I think part of the problem could be looking at too much porn
You must live in DC, Hollywood for ugly people.
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