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This is actually one of my "pet peeves". If I wear a nice top or dress with a "sweetheart neckline" that men, older ones especially, think it's an invitation to gawk.
So you wear it so some hunk will look at you, not the drunken perv in the parking lot abusing himself?
desperation. 42 million divorces later since 1975, 75% filed by women. the fish are spooked and the bait keeps getting better. they are no longer fishing for good marriage material, they are fishing for good divorce material.
They've been doing that since the 60s. They just won't admit it.
my favorite knee jerk defense, the reason i am naked is its hot, its not to attract men at all. i am just trying to get comfortable. oh my my top is unbuttoned to my navel?? it must have come undone. thanks. the problem is nobody has invented a pushup that just attracts billionaires.
I was at work last night, sorting freight outside. I only had one or two buttons buttoned. It was HOT, I did it to be more comfortable. At least I didn't take it off entirely--until after we were done, so that I could change shirts!
After reading through previous posts, I have to agree with Lindsey. I think it's annoying that men assume women dress a particular way for them, and women (who probably can't wear that type of clothing) assume she does it because she has low self-esteem. I don't wear revealing clothes but I do wear clothes that compliment my figure. That's what I like....and it has nothing to do with self-esteem, lack of confidence, or attention seeking behavior. It has everything to do with my idea of how a woman is supposed to look.
After reading through previous posts, I have to agree with Lindsey. I think it's annoying that men assume women dress a particular way for them, and women (who probably can't wear that type of clothing) assume she does it because she has low self-esteem. I don't wear revealing clothes but I do wear clothes that compliment my figure. That's what I like....and it has nothing to do with self-esteem, lack of confidence, or attention seeking behavior. It has everything to do with my idea of how a woman is supposed to look.
So YOU know how a woman is SUPPOSED to look? Wow! You are so blessed God chose you to reveal this to!
I don't expose skin to impress egotistical men who think I'm doing it for them. I do it to invoke jealousy out of other females. hhahahaha JK. I wear what I feel comfortable in, and because it's been in the 90s lately, I feel more comfortable not wearing layers!
the fact that men are easily tunred on has nothing to do with being weak, its biologically engrained in men, and they can do nothing against it (you would understand if you were a man). Saying its the mens fault because they react naturally to stimulation does not make much sense. Whether women like it or not, for whatever reason they dress, and in what situation they dress, if they wear skimpy clothing, men are attracted, if they show cleavage, men are attracted. Women are the ones pulling all the string in this debate, since they chose what they wear, and men react as nature/evolution indended them to.
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