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I dated a married woman that was in the process of divorce. We were together for a year and the first 11 months were great. We had a really bad last month which is almost all my fault and she ended up going back to her husband. It was pretty unexpected and caused a domino effect as the husband had a girlfriend also who got the axe.
We gave back keys, items, all that stuff and had a goodbye lunch where we apologized to each other (I did most of the apologizing). We left amiably and I put it out of my mind. A month has passed and she texted me that i am in her heart and she loves me madly but that she is determined to make it work with her husband. It was completely unsolicited. I returned a text that said i feel the same way about her and good luck with your marriage. She continued to text me saying she found a watch of mine and burst into tears and that she loves me very much.
I'm unsure if I should pursue this, if there is something to pursue, if its right to pursue it. And if i do choose to pursue it with what strategy? And what could her motives be?
Not clear at all. She texted me these things out of the blue.
Yes. But people backslide. A recovering drunk may fall off the wagon a few times before they sober up for good.
If this lady is determined to work on her marriage, then she should be focused on her husband. Not texting other men. Don't respond to her texts. And if you must, do so to tell her to focus on her marriage, not communicating with you.
I don't think it's wrong to want a relationship. But you need to avoid a relationship with her until she's 100% single. Separated =/= single. As you see. Dating people who are still married causes unneeded extra drama, and complications. When and if a divorce is finalized, then sure, go ahead and date. But she's never going to resolve anything when she's going back and forth between 2 men. Unless you and the husband agree to share her.
This is at best. At worst, she's just stringing you along and wants her husband, while using you as the side guy, and saying things to keep you hooked.
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