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Old 11-06-2015, 12:07 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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This was possibly the most amazing post in CD Relationship history.

Seriously. Repped 100x.
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Old 11-06-2015, 12:09 PM
 
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Hello
About month ago I met this polish guy and he smitten me.I am in love.He left to NJ for 3 weeks and is back.He went there because girl he dated for 2 years and broke up told him she is pregnat.He called me after he came back but once i went to a house when he works ge send me back home.He said he can see me in a hotel because he doesnt want problems.His cousin wife is a girs friend.He said he told her to get abortion and that he didnt want her.She stays at his house in NJ until he is going to sell it.He is not sure if it is his baby or she wants him for money. She will come to Ca for Thanksgiving.His parents are comming to see him from Poland. He asked me if I am still getting my divorce. He said he likes me a lot.I am in love with him head over hills and had best time of my life with him.Dont want to loose him.What to do?
If he broke up 2 years ago, why would she think her baby is his? And why would he even bother to go see her?

He's obviously been cheating on you.

Dump him.
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Old 11-06-2015, 12:58 PM
 
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Let me see...

You are married.

He is living with a woman who may or may not be pregnant by him.

His parents are coming from Poland for Thanksgiving.

This will prove an ultimate challenge for you as a hostess, for the Thanksgiving dinner!



Blended families present unique seating challenges. You can master this by making cute turkey-shaped seating cards in autumn colors for each guest.

Seat his father at the head of the table, and his mother at the foot. The traditional European head of household gentleman deserves the seat of honor.

Seat your boyfriend's potentially pregnant live-in girlfriend next to your boyfriend's mother. Thus the older lady can share family lore with the mother of her upcoming grandchild.

Seat your father on the other side of your boyfriend's girlfriend's mother. Mixing up guests who are previously unacquainted but who share common interests makes for sparkling conversation.

Seat your mother at the left of the boyfriend's father. As above, they share common interests, and will enjoy getting acquainted.

Although your boyfriend's father will carve the turkey, I suggest you allow your boyfriend to pour the wine. A steady stream of adult beverage will add to the festivities.

You can seat your husband at the overflow table, with the minor children.

And as for yourself -- you can become a dazzling hostess by garbing yourself in an eye-catching mode.

I suggest spandex. Leopard print spandex.
Such imagination, well done!
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Old 11-06-2015, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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This was possibly the most amazing post in CD Relationship history.

It was amazing.
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Old 11-06-2015, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Let me see...

You are married.

He is living with a woman who may or may not be pregnant by him.

His parents are coming from Poland for Thanksgiving.

This will prove an ultimate challenge for you as a hostess, for the Thanksgiving dinner!



Blended families present unique seating challenges. You can master this by making cute turkey-shaped seating cards in autumn colors for each guest.

Seat his father at the head of the table, and his mother at the foot. The traditional European head of household gentleman deserves the seat of honor.

Seat your boyfriend's potentially pregnant live-in girlfriend next to your boyfriend's mother. Thus the older lady can share family lore with the mother of her upcoming grandchild.

Seat your father on the other side of your boyfriend's girlfriend's mother. Mixing up guests who are previously unacquainted but who share common interests makes for sparkling conversation.

Seat your mother at the left of the boyfriend's father. As above, they share common interests, and will enjoy getting acquainted.

Although your boyfriend's father will carve the turkey, I suggest you allow your boyfriend to pour the wine. A steady stream of adult beverage will add to the festivities.

You can seat your husband at the overflow table, with the minor children.

And as for yourself -- you can become a dazzling hostess by garbing yourself in an eye-catching mode.

I suggest spandex. Leopard print spandex.
I bow down to you, master.
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Old 11-06-2015, 02:11 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Hello
About month ago I met this polish guy and he smitten me.I am in love.He left to NJ for 3 weeks and is back.He went there because girl he dated for 2 years and broke up told him she is pregnat.He called me after he came back but once i went to a house when he works ge send me back home.He said he can see me in a hotel because he doesnt want problems.His cousin wife is a girs friend.He said he told her to get abortion and that he didnt want her.She stays at his house in NJ until he is going to sell it.He is not sure if it is his baby or she wants him for money. She will come to Ca for Thanksgiving.His parents are comming to see him from Poland. He asked me if I am still getting my divorce. He said he likes me a lot.I am in love with him head over hills and had best time of my life with him.Dont want to loose him.What to do?
Even though you are head over hills in love, I would be careful.

He goes to NJ (why?? could have just called her) for 3 weeks (WTF?) but wants to see you in a hotel?

Watch out, better run for the hills ..
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Old 11-06-2015, 02:27 PM
 
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This was possibly the most amazing post in CD Relationship history.
Agree, so well done.
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Old 11-06-2015, 02:27 PM
 
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If he broke up 2 years ago, why would she think her baby is his? And why would he even bother to go see her?

He's obviously been cheating on you.

Dump him.
They were together two years. She didn't say how long ago he broke up with the pregnant ex.

She should still dump him anyway.
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Old 11-06-2015, 02:32 PM
 
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They were together two years. She didn't say how long ago he broke up with the pregnant ex.

She should still dump him anyway.
Oh, I see now, a month ago she met him.
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Old 11-06-2015, 03:49 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma USA
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If he broke up 2 years ago, why would she think her baby is his? .
I puzzled over that sentence construction as well, and pondered whether we should consider it a scientific anomaly, or the miracle event of some new religion.
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