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Problem is that it is her apartment and he lives there. You can't just kick someone out of their home unless you can show abuse. And if she leaves, she is responsible for the rent.
Oh, thanks. I hadn't realized it was her place. Definitely more difficult.
DEFINITELY contact a domestic violence hotline, center, whatever. Just from what you've described, this is a guy who could turn dangerous in a second if he thinks his control over you and his child is slipping. I feel like when you have this conversation you need to have people near you who can intervene and make sure your daughter is elsewhere.
Basically, you need to be 100% prepared when you tackle this. But you DO need to tackle it. You don't want your daughter growing up to think this is a normal relationship.
Also, you may want to see a lawyer in case this guy goes for custody.
Problem is that it is her apartment and he lives there. You can't just kick someone out of their home unless you can show abuse. And if she leaves, she is responsible for the rent.
Um, why not? It's her apartment? Only HER name is on the lease. She should have a say in who stays there and who doesn't. She does have a way of showing abuse, because what he IS doing IS abusive. She should start recording these conversations too. She can also apply for assistance if necessary since she does have a child she also is responsible for.
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