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Old 11-19-2015, 08:27 PM
 
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Long story short about a few months ago my husband became mysterious. He didn't answer any calls at home everytime his phone rings he hangs up his phone immediately. I have his phone password and had checked his message box but found nothing. We rarely had sex. He seems feel no interest of my body. That drove me crazy. I searched some software trying to retrieve his deleted message and found these messages! So he is really cheating on me? What should I do? I don't even dare to think about it. The thing I retrieved probably is a conversation... I want to confirm if he is cheating on me(As far as I concerned he IS cheating on me), I do love him but I can't forgive betrayer. I want to know what can I do to catch his affair. Any help will be appreciated.

P.S We have been married for a year. I am 25 he is 29.
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Old 11-19-2015, 08:33 PM
 
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I'm afraid he might just be talking to another woman, given the things you described. I'd have a serious talk with him!
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Old 11-19-2015, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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(As far as I concerned he IS cheating on me).
If this is true, why would anything we say make a difference?
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Old 11-19-2015, 08:35 PM
 
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I want to know what can I do to catch his affair. Any help will be appreciated.
You could start with a GPS device in his car that you can track. If he's not where he says he is, you know when he is lying.
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Old 11-19-2015, 08:42 PM
 
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If this is true, why would anything we say make a difference?
Because I love him, I don't want to let this crazy thing go to my head and make a wrong decision...
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Old 11-19-2015, 08:45 PM
 
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You could start with a GPS device in his car that you can track. If he's not where he says he is, you know when he is lying.
I will give a try... Thank you
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Old 11-19-2015, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Because I love him, I don't want to let this crazy thing go to my head and make a wrong decision...
Well, there are two problems.

1) You suspect he is cheating based on perceived evidence, and 2) you suspect he is cheating based on evidence you gathered surreptitiously.

So logic would tell you to TALK to him about your concerns (loss of interest, withdrawing, etc) but what do you do about the stuff you found out about secretly? That's deception, too.

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Old 11-19-2015, 08:47 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Because I love him, I don't want to let this crazy thing go to my head and make a wrong decision...
He is your husband. Can't you talk to him?

The texts you recovered do not seem innocent. Unless he has a sister who's initials are "bb"?
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Old 11-19-2015, 08:49 PM
 
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I'm afraid he might just be talking to another woman, given the things you described. I'd have a serious talk with him!
idk how to confront him... What if that is a misunderstanding? I really don't want him see me as a despairing crazy woman...
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Old 11-19-2015, 08:50 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I will give a try... Thank you
Or ... you could talk to your husband about your concerns.
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