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Old 11-20-2015, 09:27 AM
 
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I was curious as to people's views on age gap relationships. Feel free to post your opinion.
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Old 11-20-2015, 09:30 AM
 
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You might be better off using the search function to see the multitude of recent threads on this topic.
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Old 11-20-2015, 09:30 AM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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It is individual and it depends. My early relationships were mostly age gap relationships. As I got older the gap narrowed. Others do it differently. There is no pattern, no rhyme, no reason. No one reason that is.
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Old 11-20-2015, 09:31 AM
 
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It depends on the people involved. Late hubby was 7.5 years older. My (male) best friend is 6 years younger.

For me, it isn't so much about age as it is about life stages. I'm downsizing my possessions and looking at and trying to work toward early retirement. Someone who is 25, just starting out in his career and finally has a bit of financial freedom to buy "stuff" is not likely to be in the same mindset as me. Similarly, neither is someone who is already retired and spends all his free time hanging out with the grandkids.
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Old 11-20-2015, 09:32 AM
 
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I was curious as to people's views on age gap relationships. Feel free to post your opinion.
It purely comes down to the age difference and the seriousness of the relationship

If you provide more details I'm sure you will get more detailed answers.
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Old 11-20-2015, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Age gaps relationships aren't inherently bad or good.
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Old 11-20-2015, 09:38 AM
 
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I was curious as to people's views on age gap relationships. Feel free to post your opinion.
After you!
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Old 11-20-2015, 06:38 PM
 
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No.
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Old 11-20-2015, 07:09 PM
 
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It depends on how old you are. 18 vs 27 is bad, 25 vs 34 is somewhat bad, 30 vs 39, still bad, 80 vs 89, not a lot of difference there.
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Old 11-20-2015, 11:51 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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It depends on how old you are. 18 vs 27 is bad, 25 vs 34 is somewhat bad, 30 vs 39, still bad, 80 vs 89, not a lot of difference there.
I don't know... I kind of agree with this:
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Age gaps relationships aren't inherently bad or good.
To convince me otherwise you would need to define "bad". The age gaps you are using as illustrations are laughably small. If you think 25 vs 34 is 'bad', I don't know what you would say about 24 vs 38 which was my first. And some celebrity age gap relationships are in multiple decades of gap. If duration is any indication they have at least the same snowballs chance as any other kind of celebrity pairing.
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