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You like her, and you had a good time, you didn't REALLY say anything bad in the text AND you apologized.
She MIGHT be put off by the fact that you talked about how many times you kissed her with your friend...that whole "don't kiss and tell" thing. She might be worried you're only in it for sex.
I would just ask her out again, and see what happens. I hope she says yes. I REALLY hope she doesn't ghost you, since that is even ruder than anything you did.
Good luck!
Yeah, because women don't do this or anything.
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Originally Posted by Astral_Weeks
Clearly the next step is a call, I agree.
No, it isn't, it's 2015, not 1968, stop with the call , good grief.
OP, you're fine, honest mistake, it's not like you went into gross detail about her body and other things that would be inappropriate to tell a friend.
Give her some time, and if she gets all bent out of shape over that and stops talking to you, consider yourself lucky in the long run. Like I said, her girlfrans are probably asking her to "dish" on how the date with, so it's not a big deal.
No, it isn't, it's 2015, not 1968, stop with the call , good grief.
OP, you're fine, honest mistake, it's not like you went into gross detail about her body and other things that would be inappropriate to tell a friend.
Give her some time, and if she gets all bent out of shape over that and stops talking to you, consider yourself lucky in the long run. Like I said, her girlfrans are probably asking her to "dish" on how the date with, so it's not a big deal.
I've accidentally texted much worse.
Yeah, I could see giving her a little space and not crowding in on her for the next date. I am not talking about waiting long but maybe a day or two.
I am a guy and I had a second date that went pretty well until I royally messed it up AFTER we parted ways. Immediately after the date a friend texted me to ask me how the date went and if we had made plans for a third. When I replied to his text I mistakenly texted the lady who was my date!
The text I accidentally sent to her said, "No but I think it is clear we want to go out again. We talked about what we both want and I kissed her several times. She has to work tomorrow."
After I realized my mistake I apologized and said that text was meant to go to my friend and that I was conveying to him what a good time I had with her. She has not replied (though the date ended less than 24 hours ago).
Is there anyway to recover from my clumsy mistake?
It was a mistake. Not a big deal. If she really likes you, this will be overlooked. If you don't hear from her, then I'm highly doubtful that it's because of a mistaken text.
So you agree I am toast? No chance to recover and get a third date?
To be honest, I would hate it when I go out on a date and someone besides me and the guy knows every details about it. So I can see why she has not responded. But everybody is different.
There is no need to reply to that. Time to start over.
I would wait till tomorrow, then ask her out as if nothing happened. Move on.
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No, it isn't, it's 2015, not 1968, stop with the call 
, good grief.
