No kissing after the third date, what to do? (men, sex, feelings)

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by RJ312

I'd be most concerned about the time space between dates. In the early stages of dating, you should be seeing each other about every 3-5 days.

I told the guy I just met that I wouldn't be available for the next two weeks when he asked for a second date.

[Metaphysique]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Yeah, that's disturbing that he thinks that.

There's a BIG difference, OP, between "assertive" and "a**hole."

Indeed. There's nothing wrong with the former. Don't be the latter.

[the minx]

Originally Posted by mrx23

... i was playful like holding her in the air & spinning her اand even complimented her but there were no hands holding and no kisses on the lips.

Holding her in the air and spinning her? Who does that?

Sounds like you're living in a fairy tale.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by the minx

Holding her in the air and spinning her? Who does that?

Sounds like you're living in a fairy tale.

Lol, no one does that.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by the minx

Holding her in the air and spinning her? Who does that?

Sounds like you're living in a fairy tale.

At least he didn't put Baby in the corner.

[Stagemomma]

Okay we'll count your 3rd date as really the 2nd date because there was a 2 month lapse. Feel better?

Now, when you are on a date with her, you are not COMPETING WITH ANYONE. You aren't on The Bachelorette, she has chosen to go on a date with you, not anyone else.

Let your body language show that you are feeling close to her and just kiss her!

I recently dated a nice guy for about a month I was lukewarm about. He broke up with me. I almost immediately met someone else I feel I have an amazing connection with. What was the difference? The guy I"m with now makes it very clear how attracted he is, how happy he is to be with me, he really isn't holding anything back. We could still crash and burn, but my advice from here on out is that people are most attracted to people who find them irresistible. So make sure she knows you find her irresistible! (but don't be creepy)

[Opin_Yunated]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

No kissing after the 3rd date = not interested.

No kissing after the 1st date = not interested.

[ScarletG]

Originally Posted by the minx

Holding her in the air and spinning her? Who does that?

Sounds like you're living in a fairy tale.

Really...you've never had a guy wrap his arms around you and twirl a bit? I think he just met her feet off the ground...we aren't talking what is in the dirty dancing style clip. It's a little gentle physical play....

[ScarletG]

Originally Posted by Opin_Yunated

No kissing after the 1st date = not interested.

Bull

[Opin_Yunated]

Originally Posted by RJ312

I'd be most concerned about the time space between dates. In the early stages of dating, you should be seeing each other about every 3-5 days.

wish I could do that.... lol. Once per week is a stretch these days...