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Originally Posted by RunD1987
Not sure where it's going to go from here. Fiancé is depressed crying sad. Overwhelmed with school and feeling that she will never bear children that at her age now her time has passed.
Sigh not sure what to do.
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Slow it down! This behavior is bordering on neurotic. She needs to talk to her ob/gyn and get straightened out on fertility ages of women - oh, I know, all the women in her family have trouble getting pregnant, blah blah - doesn't mean a thing.
Sounds to me like her plan to go to school isn't working out (on purpose?) so if she can't immediately have kids she has no role in life. She is in no shape to have kids right now. Frankly, if you aren't in agreement on kids, why are you engaged? Aren't those issues to settle BEFORE you agree to get married?
Or is she rushing through this because she also has a "date" after which she's decided she is no longer marriageable? She's living her life on a made-up arbitrary timeline and you're just along for the ride because you were there at the right time? I really hope not, but you may need to take a step back before things get totally out of hand. She could wind up pregnant before you're married....