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Sadly, there are women and men who want attention and use people to have this need met. She sounds like she enjoyed the feeling that you wanted her, but did not return the feeling. It was wrong of her to lead you on, but it happens all of the time. Forget her and look for someone better.
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I think there is some misunderstanding. you pretend her friendly nature as a flirting, that's why you think she ditch you. But, this is not true. she always treat you as a friend. so don't think she is evil. please try to understand him
Hello ,
I think there is some misunderstanding. you pretend her friendly nature as a flirting, that's why you think she ditch you. But, this is not true. she always treat you as a friend. so don't think she is evil. please try to understand him
Women don't always know you like them unless you actually say it. You need to express your interest right from the beginning coz otherwise you are relegated to the friend zone. Once you are friends then anything she says is within the context of friendship. Maybe you misinterpreted her friendly behaviour as flirting?
What I don't get about this case is that apparently she actually said she would date him. Why would she say that if she didn't mean it? Sometimes you can chalk this kind of thing up to people being polite, or being friendly, or whatever. But to go so far as to say she'd date him? Totally sending the wrong signal, if she didn't mean it. That seems like cruel and unusual punishment.
Maybe it was just harmless flirting on her part? We've all said " oh well if only you were single " sort of thing.
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
What I don't get about this case is that apparently she actually said she would date him. Why would she say that if she didn't mean it? Sometimes you can chalk this kind of thing up to people being polite, or being friendly, or whatever. But to go so far as to say she'd date him? Totally sending the wrong signal, if she didn't mean it. That seems like cruel and unusual punishment.
I'm nearly certain this is the case Ruth, I'm sure we've all used innuendos in jokingly flirting between friends?
If I am right I think the OP should have a look at himself in the mirror for taking things SO literally and to distinguish the differences between having a laugh and being serious.
I'm nearly certain this is the case Ruth, I'm sure we've all used innuendos in jokingly flirting between friends?
No, we all haven't.
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If I am right I think the OP should have a look at himself in the mirror for taking things SO literally and to distinguish the differences between having a laugh and being serious.
He liked her. He's probably been alone for awhile, feeling a little lonely, was hoping something would work out with her, and took her signals verbatim, seeing as how he was attracted to her, and all. IDK, it seems like a mistake anyone could make, if they were seriously looking for a gf and felt he'd hit it off with someone in a few casual convos.
I don't see the OP as one of our typical whiny guys. He's just asking us, "What the heck happened here"? But I think you probably have the most realistic take on it.
No, we all haven't.
He liked her. He's probably been alone for awhile, feeling a little lonely, was hoping something would work out with her, and took her signals verbatim, seeing as how he was attracted to her, and all. IDK, it seems like a mistake anyone could make, if they were seriously looking for a gf and felt he'd hit it off with someone in a few casual convos.
I don't see the OP as one of our typical whiny guys. He's just asking us, "What the heck happened here"? But I think you probably have the most realistic take on it.
What I don't get about this case is that apparently she actually said she would date him. Why would she say that if she didn't mean it? Sometimes you can chalk this kind of thing up to people being polite, or being friendly, or whatever. But to go so far as to say she'd date him? Totally sending the wrong signal, if she didn't mean it. That seems like cruel and unusual punishment.
I'm interpreting the OP's post as the girl probably said "I wish I could meet someone like you to date". He then misinterpreted such a statement as she obviously wants to date me. I could be wrong of course. I agree that it might be perceived as sending mixed signals, but she probably was just having a chat with a friend & didn't think too much about what she was saying & how it may come across to the other person.
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