Anybody Here Done Speed Dating?

[michael917]

Originally Posted by XFlowersX

I signed up for 2 speed dating events in my city with 2 different companies. 4 men were the same from both events and we all recognized each other. On the first 1 I just said yes 2 decent looking younger guys who I had good conversations with (both said no to me LOL). On the second I said yes to 2 guys who I could have SWORN were going to say yes to me based off their body language, conversation, flirting, etc

This has been my experience for the most part. The few times I felt strongly that I was connecting with someone, she did not pick me as a match. You just never know with people...

Also, I too have met a few women at multiple events. I always remarked immediately that "I believe we've met before" and that served as the icebreaker. What really surprised me in a few cases was how much they remembered about me.

[RJ312]

Originally Posted by oh-eve

If you are already going into the speed dating with this attitude, I can predict you will not have much luck.


90% of all the women will ask you about your job. It's called SMALL TALK. If you are not willing to answer that simple question, how do you want to date somebody??

Talking about a job is boring. Talking about free time pursuits is way more exciting.

[49ersfan27]

Was invited to it but declined. Not my thing.

[Frihed89]

You say, "I don't want talk about my job. I have a lot more to offer. How about you?"