She thinks Im playing games, I need to get her back How?

[zentropa]

OP you sound a little unhinged.

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by zentropa

OP you sound a little unhinged.

not at all

[Inkpoe]

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

It's not a mess. This isn't that bad. I'm going to make another run at this soon. There is no fighting or anything.

It isn't that bad? The opportunity has sailed away-- your rationalizing that you never promised to text her that night isn't going to earn you any points. So yes, you blew it. Coud it be undone? Indications point to... NO. Please move on, but be courteous to the lady.

[zentropa]

As I suspected, OP has a long history of this obsessive behavior.

Dating Momentum

Need a way to ask this woman out

It's been YEARS. He has been trying to "build rapport" with this same woman since 2008.

This is not a case of a shy, awkward nebbish with no social skills. There is something cognitively off here.