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Old 12-13-2015, 04:05 AM
 
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Why haven't you asked him??

If he's in your "social circle" then you should be able to communicate with him enough to ask him why he acts like this toward you.
eh, guess I didn't want to look foolish. I'm working on letting it go. I'll be fine.
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Old 12-13-2015, 07:48 AM
 
Location: D.C.
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For someone who's absolutely not interested, OP seems awfully "observant" about this guy's every movement/action.
I was thinking the same thing. I've never spent this much time dwelling on someone that I was not interested in.
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Old 12-13-2015, 08:48 AM
 
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Thanks purehuman.

Someone else said that. How does he manage to make me feel so horrible?
He can't...you're doing that on your own.
YOU control your emotions....not him....
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Old 12-13-2015, 02:32 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Hi stepka,

Does he have a girlfriend?
He did but doesn't now. He still has no interest in dating me.

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And why is he being socially akward with me and no one else?
The one I'm referring to is the same way. My guess is that he is attracted to you but for whatever reason he has decided not to date you. Having a GF would be the biggest reason of course, but it could be anything. This man tends to date professional women and I'm a teacher so that could be it as well.
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Old 12-13-2015, 03:57 PM
 
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He can't...you're doing that on your own.
YOU control your emotions....not him....
Ok, thanks.
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Old 12-13-2015, 03:58 PM
 
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He did but doesn't now. He still has no interest in dating me.

The one I'm referring to is the same way. My guess is that he is attracted to you but for whatever reason he has decided not to date you. Having a GF would be the biggest reason of course, but it could be anything. This man tends to date professional women and I'm a teacher so that could be it as well.
So when is a female teacher not a professional woman?
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Old 12-13-2015, 04:03 PM
 
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I was thinking the same thing. I've never spent this much time dwelling on someone that I was not interested in.
I'm quite sensitive. If I believe someone is behaving poorly towards me whether real or perceived, I feel badly. I don't mean to make it a big thing and I will get over it, but for now it's just perplexing.
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Old 12-13-2015, 06:12 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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He needs to improve his game, or settle into a routine with his existing girlfriend.

Preferably settle into a routine with his girlfriend, seeing as, uh...he has a GIRLFRIEND.

OP...why do you even care enough to ask if he's taken?
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Old 12-13-2015, 06:15 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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lol, gosh!

In a perfect world I could do all this but he's got a girlfriend and is not very nice to me. He needs to grow up.

Thanks Listener!

Yeah, you are thinking about it or you wouldn't be on here asking about him. There would be no need to even post about him if you TRULY...TRULY..had no interest.

No wonder relationships are so hard. 70% of people seem like they are always ready to screw around with someone they shouldn't be screwing around with.
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Old 12-13-2015, 06:25 PM
 
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Yeah, you are thinking about it or you wouldn't be on here asking about him. There would be no need to even post about him if you TRULY...TRULY..had no interest.

No wonder relationships are so hard. 70% of people seem like they are always ready to screw around with someone they shouldn't be screwing around with.
What? SunnerFall,

I am not ready to screw anyone. Did you not read? I admitted there is some obsession because of his behavior towards me, but in no way do I have any intentions on starting a fling or anything like that with him. I completely respect that he's in a relationship.
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