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Its very easy to talk to shy women or shy people in general. You just have to make them feel comfortable talking to you, usually takes no more than a minute or two. Unless you have no idea what youre doing.
This!...we'll open up if you make us feel comfortable.
We don't ALL go for the loud ones, yes I grant you we love a live wire but a nice quiet shy girl is lovely to settle down with and appeals to a lot of men
Glove on the other hand do YOU like shy men?
Yes I do like shy men. They seem to "get it". Matter of fact my late husband was extremely shy when we first met.
Is it really fair for guys to settle for us when they are done having their fun with the other girls?
Well that poster has no standards so maybe you two should hook up.
Wow! Slow down there. I can only speak from my own personal experience...if a person makes me feel comfortable during our conversations...then I'm going to open up a lot faster and this goes for all my relationships (platonic or romantic). Not sure why you took this negatively???
Yes I do like shy men. They seem to "get it". Matter of fact my late husband was extremely shy when we first met.
Is it really fair for guys to settle for us when they are done having their fun with the other girls?
I didn't mean it like that, to settle down with someone is the ultimate compliment I personally would much rather end up with a shy girl than a loud one.
In fairness you shouldn't really compare shy girls to the loud ones or yourself to other women full stop as ALL women have there own different qualities
Now you really are starting to sound like some of the male posters on here.
Maybe. But I did start this thread with I get tired of men complaining about their luck with women when there is a whole group of women out there who get overlooked.
Wow! Slow down there. I can only speak from my own personal experience...if a person makes me feel comfortable during our conversations...then I'm going to open up a lot faster and this goes for all my relationships (platonic or romantic). Not sure why you took this negatively???
Only if they are okay doing this. Many men are not and want the woman they are talking to to contribute to the conversation.
Maybe. But I did start this thread with I get tired of men complaining about their luck with women when there is a whole group of women out there who get overlooked.
Well just like with those men. Asking all women to change who they are just for them is a fruitless endeavor. Just as asking men to change who they are for you or any other woman who has dating issues is a fruitless endeavor.
It's not about having no interest in shy women. If anything, I love it when a woman is visibly shy! The problem is how do you approach a woman like that? And where are they?
That's a problem I've had for some time now actually. Where do you meet single people for the general purpose of having a romantic connection? In my case I don't drink so bars are out. And partying isn't my thing either. I hear people talking about meeting at book stores or grocery stores, but the first I don't go to often at all and the second it seems seedy to try to get chatty while looking over lettuce and broccoli.
Then again I come from a place where socializing is seen as odd and few people do it. Plan on moving and hope that's something that changes.
I think it's probably a little harder to come across shy women Bc we are normally not in the places single people go to mingle (clubs/bars). Bookstore or coffee shop is a good place. If you want to meet shy women, the best thing you can do is start small talk at first...build rapport. This will make her feel more comfortable with you and more receptive to your possibly asking her out. The key to getting a shy person to open up is making them feel comfortable.
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