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I hear ya. So annoying, having all these women constantly beating down my doors, always wanting to date me. This is definitely something every man has to deal with all the time.
Just ask all the whiny virgin guys here who complain that they never get laid. They might be able to tell you how to become less desirable.
Generally:
more weight
less hygiene
weird habits/ticks
odd comments
If your going to insult people I would ask you to find another thread to post on. I know what some of these virgin guys are going through and they don't need someone on the outside looking in insulting them
Well, how are they responsible for some other woman in your post not having been interested?
If you're not interested, then you're not. But it almost seems as though you are punishing random women today for something that has nothing to do with them.
Is it that you fear rejection/hurt? Or is it truly that you have no interest in romance/sex?
Im not angry about it but if I wasn't good enough then why now? I can honestly say I haven't changed.
But you probably have changed, imperceptibly to you, but clearly women have noticed something about you that wasn't there before. You said you've spent the last 10-15 years focusing on things that are important to you, which I assume means your career, and probably some hobbies or interests, maybe travel, maybe volunteering. You've become a more mature person (again--I'm assuming) and a more well-rounded one, probably, who has more to offer in terms of conversation and companionship. And maybe you're not as unattractive as you seem to think; you've probably outgrown some awkward, adolescent stage you were in much earlier, and look like a mature adult.
Those things can explain the results you're getting. It's not at all something to be resentful or bitter about; it's just life. Lots of teens and early 20-somethings go through life dateless, then come into their own a bit later in life. Congratulations on your new attractiveness, OP! There are guys out there who would envy you.
Well, how are they responsible for some other woman in your post not having been interested?
If you're not interested, then you're not. But it almost seems as though you are punishing random women today for something that has nothing to do with them.
Is it that you fear rejection/hurt? Or is it truly that you have no interest in romance/sex?
This is what it sounds like, OP. That would be sad, because ultimately, you'd only be punishing yourself. The person missing out on potential happiness in the final analysis would be you. I would recommend you not do that to yourself, but it's up to you, obviously. You're The Decider. Good luck, but please don't come back to us when you're in middle age and are bitter that you're alone. We did our best to advise you.
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