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It's porn on a tablet. No different than in my day with Hustler or Penthouse magazine in hand, since they didn't have tablets back then.
Is he paying money for anything? Does he spend money on chats and/or on phone sex? Watching porn on the internet at no cost certainly doesn't seem like an addiction to me. You need more evidence, like having no sex with you, or money spent on porn, to even contemplate some sort of addiction IMO.
And if you want old fashioned romance, communicate with him. Don't sit idle and say "he knows what I want". No reason not to remind him. Guys have ruts too you know. Sometimes they put on the tough suit while in fact they have issues of their own. Communicate.
I wouldn't be worried if it was on his tablet but if it was on his lap ...-top then Id be worried
get it on his lap...top as in top of his lap... ok sorry couldn't resist
Sounds like the cat that somehow ended up making a home for itself at the Mr's office; when she wants his undivided attention, she'll lay across his keyboard.
My husband tries but he goes about it the wrong way. He'll swat me on the ass or he'll wait till we're in the bed and he'll grab a boob or something like that. I like to be romanced. He'll laugh and say, "we're in our late 40's and we've been together going on 14 or 15 years now. The days of trying to romance you out of your panties are over." Most of the time when he does that I turn him down cause that's not the way I want to be approached. Why can't he bring flowers home? Take me out to a nice dinner? You know, the little things that women like..
HAHAHAH Oh man, c'mon, you can't be that naive. THis is what marriage sex becomes for a lot of people, especially at that age. Ive only been with my gf a few months and its a similar dance... a pop on the behind or I get in bed and get grabby. The romancing stuff usually ends after while. Too hard to keep up unless the guy is a career loner that is happy 1 person in the universe took him home. I actually find ur husband funny. he's a real dude.
If you want the romance stuff and for somebody to put up effort, you're going to actually have to get like a side bf or something. As for the porn, men dont usually get to marry their "dream" woman, but a lady that is a good overally package. But porn still gives you that fantasy of what we wished most women looked like. just let him live.
If he didn't have porn on his tablet, you should worry. Otherwise, congratulations, he's normal.
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The romancing stuff usually ends after while. Too hard to keep up unless the guy is a career loner that is happy 1 person in the universe took him home. I actually find ur husband funny. he's a real dude.
