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Old 12-22-2015, 03:31 PM
 
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Twice a month is with in normal range, especially if you are married a while or have kids.

But I wouldn't get hung up on normal.

I agree with the posters, it's something to talk to her about and maybe see a marriage therapist to work on.
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:37 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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We don't have kids, and its a concern now because I suddenly realize its probably too late to change things now, and anyone else that looks appealing to me, serves my meals and calls me Sir.
All this lack of sex and the only women you find attractive are 20 years younger than you? Yeah...men! You oughtta be eager for ANYTHING...but nope, you'll hold out for the hottie!
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:42 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Maybe get her some of that bodice ripping lady's literature and a glass of wine. In about an hour come in wearing a shirt with puffy sleeves, a cape, and tights.
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:46 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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All this lack of sex and the only women you find attractive are 20 years younger than you? Yeah...men! You oughtta be eager for ANYTHING...but nope, you'll hold out for the hottie!
Nothing wrong with having standards or self respect

Me personally I'd rather go without than pull a bird just for the sake of it
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Nothing wrong with having standards or self respect

Me personally I'd rather go without than pull a bird just for the sake of it
I'm not saying he should go down to the local crack house...it's just a little hard to take him seriously.
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:53 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I'm not saying he should go down to the local crack house...it's just a little hard to take him seriously.
( I know LOL )
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Old 12-22-2015, 04:00 PM
 
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All this lack of sex and the only women you find attractive are 20 years younger than you? Yeah...men! You oughtta be eager for ANYTHING...but nope, you'll hold out for the hottie!


You wouldn't expect me to give up maybe half my net worth, my celibate yet stable life for someone in their ....say early fifties would you?
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Old 12-22-2015, 04:02 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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You wouldn't expect me to give up maybe half my net worth, my celibate yet stable life for someone in their ....say early fifties would you?
Oh so thats why you have seeked solace elsewhere then?
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Old 12-22-2015, 04:03 PM
 
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Oh so thats why you have seeked solace elsewhere then?
Bingo!
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Old 12-22-2015, 04:03 PM
 
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Would anyone say twice/month was normal?

It appears to be normal for you which has no baring on what is normal for others.
I am confused why this is such an issue after so many years, did you think things were magically going to change?
Have you sought couples counseling or looked into medical issues?
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