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Old 12-22-2015, 02:49 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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No sex life. Maybe forever. Really? Come on, you'll gonna find another mate on the side quickly
You have a very naughty mind eve............( LOVE IT!!!! )

I meant I'd stick around if it was treatable LOL
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Sputnik Planitia
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No sex life. Maybe forever. Really? Come on, you'll gonna find another mate on the side quickly
yeah, but what if you married someone and 6 months later they had some sort of accident that prevented them from ever having sex... divorce?
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:18 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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yeah, but what if you married someone and 6 months later they had some sort of accident that prevented them from ever having sex... divorce?
... In sickness and in health...
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:27 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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yeah, but what if you married someone and 6 months later they had some sort of accident that prevented them from ever having sex... divorce?
I think you will find eves post was pure tongue in cheek plus we were talking about " just met someone " not married.

As for marriage/divorce......... What wmsn4life said
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:33 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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yeah, but what if you married someone and 6 months later they had some sort of accident that prevented them from ever having sex... Divorce?
that was not the original question. Changing it now?
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:36 PM
 
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If they were willing to work with other options, why not? One of the best lovers I had wasn't able to have intercorse. But damn, he made for it in spades. He was by far better then any other guy I had been with, by far.
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:47 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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Depends on how "open" they are....
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Old 12-22-2015, 03:48 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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If they were willing to work with other options, why not? One of the best lovers I had wasn't able to have intercorse. But damn, he made for it in spades. He was by far better then any other guy I had been with, by far.
I have one of these. He has some issues. They are probably mostly psychological. Nevertheless he does amazing things with me and to me. If they can be worked through, we will, I would like to see him able to take the same kind of pleasure from our time together that he is able to give me.


Let's see...I had plenty of lovers who thought the act revolved around their d, and whether they could "go all night" or were done in minutes, if that's all they brought to the bedroom, it was just another unremarkable lay. Often enough I didn't even get my finish.


Then there's one who has issues in that regard but can do unspeakable things to me for four hours straight, keeping me on the edge of the most extreme of sensations practically the whole time. While I would love it if he could ALSO do the typical act, I most certainly would not trade him for a vanilla lover with fully functioning equipment. He blows my mind, and they do not.


So, people should realize, there is a lot more to sex. Certain kinds of dysfunction shouldn't be the end of the world, or mean "no sex life." If you are super into one another, and willing to be creative...


One challenge for most people though, is that you've got to be comfortable actually having frank conversations about sex, discussing what might work, what won't, etc. Many people can't do that.
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