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Old 01-04-2016, 06:48 PM
 
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Lol

Yall ladies are entitled to your opinion
Alright then. If you're over 45, post a picture and let's see how well you've avoided "hitting the wall" compared to over 40 women. And, if you're a young guy, well, in that case, we'll just get to admire some amazing eye candy!

You didn't answer my question, either. If there are many more good-looking, fit, youthful men over the age of 45, where the heck are they all?
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Old 01-04-2016, 06:51 PM
 
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Alright then. If you're over 45, post a picture and let's see how well you've avoided "hitting the wall" compared to over 40 women. And, if you're a young guy, well, in that case, we'll just get to admire some amazing eye candy!
I am 29. Eye candy huh? Fug it. Yolo



As I was saying though, when I am browsing online I pretty much never message women in their 50s. Usually 45 is the limit of women still holding sexual value for me. And that is in East Asia where women are known to age better than their Western counterparts.

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Old 01-04-2016, 06:55 PM
 
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I am 29 and sorry but not posting myself on some forum lol

Yeah, that's right. Because you're so shy and unassuming.

Nice try, dude. We all know better.
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Old 01-04-2016, 06:57 PM
 
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Yeah, that's right. Because you're so shy and unassuming.

Nice try, dude.
Changed my mind. Yolo
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Old 01-04-2016, 07:13 PM
 
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sinaloa, you're a good looking 29 year old guy who looks closer to 23-25. Why would you message women in their 40s at all? Go after girls your own age dude.

The MILF thing is cool for a one nighter and I've done it a few times but there's no way to have anything significant there.
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Old 01-04-2016, 07:16 PM
 
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sinaloa, you're a good looking 29 year old guy who looks closer to 23-25. Why would you message women in their 40s at all? Go after girls your own age dude.

The MILF thing is cool for a one nighter and I've done it a few times but there's no way to have anything significant there.
I do not discriminate. Most the women I meet are 18-35.

However, when I come across an attractive cougar aged 35+ I will not hesitate to message.

The sex is better with women in their 30's compared to 18-25 truth be told.

Yes, all these are just one night stands and friends with benefits. Havent had a gf since college.

Wanted to enjoy my 20s no strings attached.
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Old 01-04-2016, 07:18 PM
 
Location: The Sunshine State of Mind
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Divide your age by 2 then add 7. Going lower than that has some ick factor.
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Old 01-04-2016, 08:25 PM
 
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I am 29. Eye candy huh? Fug it. Yolo



As I was saying though, when I am browsing online I pretty much never message women in their 50s. Usually 45 is the limit of women still holding sexual value for me. And that is in East Asia where women are known to age better than their Western counterparts.
What's wrong with the left side of your face? I am being serious here. Why black it out? Or is it someone else's picture and this way we can't Google to find out where you got it or something like that?

Re: Fit gorgeous 45+ men...Can we please just rely on statistics here, as they don't lie and bear out when simply looking around...greater 74% of men in the U.S. are overweight or obese. In addition, and I am not being mean here, but obviously, a percentage are losing their hair, quite a few will have wrinkles and so on. This is all on top of what started out, for the average man, as (duh ) average looks at best. That's why they call it average. So...take average, age that and put a whole lot of weight on it and well...

MOST 45+ men I know who are considered good-looking, are considered so with the suffix "for their ages" attached, which means, as compared to the average overweight, balding, wrinkled 45+ man.

NOT trying to disrespect this demographic, there are many men in this age group on here who are my friends and I am definitely not trying to be cruel, but come on. And yes, similar statistics can be found about the average woman so I am not trying to be "that way" or anything.

The whole "older men is sexy" thing pretty often refers to wallet and confidence and tends to be 20-ish women talking about mid-30s or thereabouts men, in my experience. It is usually (not always) said by a girl without a paycheck who is awed by a confident non-pawing non-college age guy but who still looks young and hot (so again, up to maybe mid-30s depending). It also is getting outdated as the nation is getting more and more out of shape, I think we ALL know older plus very overweight doesn't tend to be a very "sexy" category...for anybody. EXTERNALLY, let me stress that. There can be many internal qualities that are very sexy, but again, if we're talking this whole "I know I've still got it physically" mystique then I am sorry...reality check.

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Old 01-04-2016, 08:32 PM
 
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What's wrong with the left side of your face? I am being serious here. Why black it out? Or is it someone else's picture and this way we can't Google to find out where you got it or something like that?

Re: Fit gorgeous 45+ mean...Can we please just rely on statistics here, as they don't lie and bear out when simply looking around...greater 74% of men in the U.S. are overweight or obese. In addition, and I am not being mean here, but obviously, a percentage are losing their hair, quite a few will have wrinkles and so on.

MOST 45+ men I know who are considered good-looking, are considered so with the suffix "for their ages" attached, which means, as compared to the average overweight, balding, wrinkled 45+ man.

NOT trying to disrespect this demographic, there are many men in this age group on here who are my friends and I am definitely not trying to be cruel, but come on. And yes, similar statistics can be found about the average woman so I am not trying to be "that way" or anything.

The whole "older men is sexy" thing pretty often refers to wallet and confidence and tends to be 20-ish women talking about mid-30s or thereabouts men, in my experience. It also is getting outdated as the nation is getting more and more out of shape, I think we ALL know older plus very overweight doesn't tend to be a very "sexy" category...for anybody. EXTERNALLY, let me stress that. There can be many internal qualities that are very sexy, but again, if we're talking this whole "I know I've still got it physically" mystique then I am sorry...reality check.
Dont wont my picture / identity outed on a public forum. Compromise so to speak.

I should have clarified, my comment was under the assumption that the man and woman took care of themselves being fit.

A man so long as he stays fit doesnt hit the wall until around 60. Women who also stay fit seem to hit the wall around 50. By wall I mean lose their sexual appeal to the opposite sex. Or in more simplistic terms transition from middle aged to old, golden years, grandpa/grandma stage.

Now I know many older dudes will still have sex with women in their 50s 60s etc but they do so because its their wife or they can not get anything better. If they could choose they would pick a younger woman under 50 if they were being honest.

Now ovcourse this doesnt apply to everyone. There are always exceptions to the rules.
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Old 01-04-2016, 08:41 PM
 
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A man so long as he stays fit doesnt hit the wall until around 60.
I'm sorry, but just no, LOL. BTW, if he stays fit but needs Viagra? If he stays fit but loses his hair? If he stays fit but wasn't very facially attractive to begin with and is now wrinkled...? And so on...So many variables and therefore so funny to see someone make this blanket statement...

I'm also sort of half-wondering what "hit the wall" even means but not too seriously as I'm sure I won't receive a realistic answer, I am sorry to say. Not trying to be negative, just noting how this conversation is going and well...(shrug) But if it means from an attractiveness POV...well...you can tell YOURSELF whatever you want to regarding how women will feel about you as an older man...but what women will ACTUALLY be attracted to, will be just that, what women are attracted to, not what men want them to be attracted to. I don't know what to say and there's so much more to it than this anyway (as I said...what's inside, etc.) but I can see you have your cut and dried rules so, keep them since they are making you feel positive, I guess. You'll learn for yourself once you get there, who knows what the future holds, maybe you'll be the hottest thing walking at that point, God only really knows.

Have a good night, SP.
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