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Boys in their teens= hot girl who will have sex with them.
Boys in college= hot girl who will have sex with them.
Boys in their 20s= hot girl who will have sex with them.
Boys in their 30s and up= hot girl who will have sex with them.
See how that works?
Sadly, moonbeam is all too right. A wise man once said men have two brains and the dominant one is not in their head.
As an addition, I should have mentioned in the OP that most of the girls/women providing these opinions were in their early-mid 20's and predominantly white, at least from their avatars.
I won't lie I tend to like tall, muscular men, but I like fades or bald heads(don't need a head full of thick hair). I've liked pretty boy/feminine faces in the past.
Yeah, we told him to get a dog and start walking it in the local dog park in the evenings.
He's one of those guys who gets in his own way, though. He becomes paralyzed around attractive women, even if (or especially if) they make a move for him. He said he had some bad experiences in HS with people laughing at him or something, and hasn't been able to deal with women ever since. So he needs a shrink.
But his case goes to show that money isn't a magic bullet.
Yep, this is me too. I've considered a dog as well. But I'm not sure I want all the added responsibility. I have a cat now, which doesn't get me out of the house, but I can travel for a weekend and not worry too much. I'm also paralyzed by beautiful women. It really sucks. I meet the OP requirements except I can't judge myself on looks. Thats so subjective anyway. Also, the confident part in #4 I fall short on, which is the biggest issue.
I'm 41, and I think the older you get, the less people care about appearances. We're all getting old and ugly LOL I would say as a woman, the most important things I value in men are kindness, sincerity, loyalty, shared interests and values, and a love of adventure.
I would want my man to be financially secure as well
Yep, this is me too. I've considered a dog as well. But I'm not sure I want all the added responsibility. I have a cat now, which doesn't get me out of the house, but I can travel for a weekend and not worry too much. I'm also paralyzed by beautiful women. It really sucks. I meet the OP requirements except I can't judge myself on looks. Thats so subjective anyway. Also, the confident part in #4 I fall short on, which is the biggest issue.
The CW Channel has done such a disservice to ordinary guys because, well... look at the men in the lineup that forms the bulk of their primetime---guys in their mid-20's that are better looking than the women. I mean who can compete with Steven R McQueen and yes, he's the grandson of the late, great actor only much better looking. CW's audience is primarily female and these girls in the 20's-30's are being conditioned to accept nothing less than a bad-boy Damon (Ian Somerhalder) of Vampire Diaries in their quest for the perfect guy. Nice guys write all the time about how they approached a pretty girl in a public place and said hi only to be given the cold shoulder. I mean they weren't even given a chance to introduce themselves and chat a little to let the girl size them up. One look and that was it far as the girl was concerned.
I'm 41, and I think the older you get, the less people care about appearances. We're all getting old and ugly LOL I would say as a woman, the most important things I value in men are kindness, sincerity, loyalty, shared interests and values, and a love of adventure.
I would want my man to be financially secure as well
If only--- IF ONLY things were reversed and girls 18-30 valued these things first and then the superficial things in old age. How perfect life would have been for me when I was young.
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Been shaving my head since about 22-23, hasn't hurt me a lick.
In fact, if you look like Jason Statham shaving is a definite plus.
People are more than a sum of their parts. It's the combination that matters, and different combinations matter to different people. /shrug
Is the tall, handsome, well built, rich, confidant funny, intelligent, caring guy (girl) going to have any easier time dating? Of course.
It's the same in everything, in school some people have to study more than others, some people make friends easier, some are funnier, some are better looking.... etc.,etc.
If you emphasize your good points and don't dwell on your negatives, your life will be much better.
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How perfect life would have been for me when I was young. 
