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Old 12-27-2015, 02:07 PM
 
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BTW, aren't you the one who lives in England with your Eastern European boyfriend?? Yeah, this issue is the least of your problems. The two of you should have broken up a long time ago.

I'm not who ever that's supposed to be. In my last post someone asked me if I'm Bulgarian because apparently some Bulgarian had a similar problem. Does that have anything to do with it? Well, anyways, I'm not the one with an Eastern European boyfriend.
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Old 12-27-2015, 05:33 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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^ aren't you the one dating that guy who acts like a total jerk all the time.. ?
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Old 12-27-2015, 06:15 PM
 
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^ aren't you the one dating that guy who acts like a total jerk all the time.. ?
?! No, he isn't acting like a jerk at all. I only have one account (this one, palmtree87) and this is my second post on this forum. So no, I'm not the one dating a guy who acts like a jerk, I'm not Bulgarian and I don't have a Eastern European boyfriend.
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Old 12-27-2015, 11:31 PM
 
Location: san gabriel valley
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hobbies and interests really?.. lol..although I'm sure some people uses it for certain causes like celebrities, etc. to promote themselves, but most of it is half naked insecure girls yearning for attention with photo shopped pics showing complete strangers which most I'm sure are ugly creepy men their half naked bodies...




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A lot of people use IG to interact with others who share the same hobbies, causes, or interests. Not sure how that's pathetic.

Anyway OP, you are grasping at straws here. Either you trust your boyfriend or you don't. What are you going to do about it? Insist that he stop following this girl? Break up with him? No, you won't do either of those things. Instead, you will let it chip away at your relationship.

BTW, aren't you the one who lives in England with your Eastern European boyfriend?? Yeah, this issue is the least of your problems. The two of you should have broken up a long time ago.
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Old 12-28-2015, 12:49 AM
 
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I would just chill out with the snooping and instagram harping.

Ok, he cheats on you with her...so now you know your boyfriend is a scumbag...you should be happy that you can move on and find a genuine person.

Don't obsess for nothing.

Lol it's like "is my plant going to die? It's being strange what if it dies?"

When you know if it dies you have to put it in the trash anyway.
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Old 12-28-2015, 12:53 AM
 
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Is there something else that's making you worried that he might stray? Is there some feeling you're getting or something he's doing or not doing that makes you feel insecure and more importantly, is this a rarity - have you felt secure in other relationships in the past? If so...maybe your instincts are trying to tell you something. Maybe you're really just not getting everything you need (you personally - everyone's needs are different) from this relationship.

If that's the case then you'll try to consciously try to gather "evidence" to support your feeling. But IMO you don't need it. Either you're happy in the relationship or not, and only you can say which it is, and only you can move forward from here - whether with this guy and with more trust (and no more snooping), or without him, and onto someone who can give you what you need.
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Old 12-28-2015, 12:56 AM
 
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I don't know, this really bothers me. I'm usually not a jealous girl,

Thank you.

well, this thread is evidence to the contrary
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Old 12-28-2015, 01:00 AM
 
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?! No, he isn't acting like a jerk at all. I only have one account (this one, palmtree87) and this is my second post on this forum. So no, I'm not the one dating a guy who acts like a jerk, I'm not Bulgarian and I don't have a Eastern European boyfriend.

patently false
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Old 12-28-2015, 01:04 AM
 
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well, this thread is evidence to the contrary
Personally I'm not so sure of that.

Taking the OP at her word (because what else can we do?), if she isn't normally jealous, but this time she is, then something deep down is telling her that something is off. I'm not saying that "something off" is cheating, necessarily, or even a warmup for cheating. Something can be "off" with neither party to blame. Sometimes, a relationship just isn't right.

The OP needs to stop snooping (obviously) and take a long hard look at the WHOLE relationship...IMO.
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Old 12-28-2015, 04:44 PM
 
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hobbies and interests really?.. lol..although I'm sure some people uses it for certain causes like celebrities, etc. to promote themselves, but most of it is half naked insecure girls yearning for attention with photo shopped pics showing complete strangers which most I'm sure are ugly creepy men their half naked bodies...
You can lol all you want, but what I say is true and correct. Of course some people misuse it, but everyone I know uses it for the reasons I stated.
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