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#1 What was your least proud, absolute worst, perhaps even unforgiveable, moment in a relationship? How did you and the other person get past it in your relationship?
#2 Conversely, what's the worst offence you've forgiven AND still remained with the person (weathered the storm and still happy)?
#1 What was your least proud, absolute worst, perhaps even unforgiveable, moment in a relationship? How did you and the other person get past it in your relationship?
#2 Conversely, what's the worst offence you've forgiven AND still remained with the person (weathered the storm and still happy)?
Wasn't a relationship but on a date a woman reached onto my plate and took some fries off my plate without asking. I did continue the date but decided not to call her again because of her poor manners.
#1 What was your least proud, absolute worst, perhaps even unforgiveable, moment in a relationship? How did you and the other person get past it in your relationship?
#2 Conversely, what's the worst offence you've forgiven AND still remained with the person (weathered the storm and still happy)?
1) I had completely forgotten the first date that I had with my now husband and he was waiting for me in the parking lot when it was about 20 degrees out. I ran into him only because I was going up to the place where we mutually worked to pick up my paycheck!!! I apologized and we did work past it enough to eventually continue going on dates and ending up getting married about 6 months later
2) A boyfriend in high school. I had helped him buy a car, then paid for most of the replacement parts in it to make it almost like new. I went to go and borrow the car early in the morning to go to my job during the summer break and when I walked up on it, he and another girl are in the back seat going at it. We talked it out and although we broke up, we remained good friends and I still remain friends with him and her (yep, he married the girl in the car).
#1 What was your least proud, absolute worst, perhaps even unforgiveable, moment in a relationship? How did you and the other person get past it in your relationship?
#2 Conversely, what's the worst offence you've forgiven AND still remained with the person (weathered the storm and still happy)?
1. When I was 19, I cheated on my boyfriend after he cheated on me. I learnt that 2 wrongs don't make a right. I forgave him, but I was never quite able to get over the betrayal. I know now that I am not one of those people who can get past cheating, so if it happens then the relationship is effectively over. Definitely not my proudest moment.
2. I've managed to remain friends with most of my exes so can't be going too wrong.
Wasn't a relationship but on a date a woman reached onto my plate and took some fries off my plate without asking. I did continue the date but decided not to call her again because of her poor manners.
Wasn't a relationship but on a date a woman reached onto my plate and took some fries off my plate without asking. I did continue the date but decided not to call her again because of her poor manners.
#1 What was your least proud, absolute worst, perhaps even unforgiveable, moment in a relationship? How did you and the other person get past it in your relationship?
#2 Conversely, what's the worst offence you've forgiven AND still remained with the person (weathered the storm and still happy)?
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Originally Posted by FloGrownGrl
Come on CD..I know there's gotta be some of you who have been through deep stuff. I hope you will share your stories
Honestly none of this is the business of anyone but those involved and I see no logical reason to dig up bones of the past that have been buried a very long time.
Life is the moment in front of you not the one behind you.
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