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Old 09-11-2017, 04:34 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Quit focusing on girlfriends. Get a social network together - friends of all types. Stop with the obsessing over "gotta get a girl - gotta get a girl". There's a whole world out there - IN THE WORLD - not in the screen. Go LIVE it.
Lots of people do online dating, and it works for many people.
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Old 09-12-2017, 03:10 AM
 
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Hi folks. I joined match.com about 1 month ago to find love. I'm not one of those to go online and play games. Anyway I was talking to this one girl and soon she flaked. I didn't get abusive or disrespectful at all. Just really probing as to why she flaked because I wanted to understand. Well I guess all that questioning to her seemed weird and I guess she reported me to match.com for harassment. They closed my account.

I'm in a new city, no friends, no connections. I'm trying to find a gf. Match was a great way to get dates. It was working. But now I'm banned. Now what?

I've tried pof, okc, eharmony and even tinder. But I can safely conclude that match had the best quality of women and I got way more responses on match than the others combined. In fact, with match I could almost get 1-2 dates a week. Now I have none. On the other websites, I've been reduced to tears! On match, I could confidently message 10 and get 2 decent responses that led to dates.

Please suggest how I can get back on match. The morning they banned me I used another email to create a new account, but I used my same credit card. None of my 3 credit cards work now.

Will it work if I use a friend's credit card and new email? How do you think they are blocking people and recognizing if I would create a new account? Do they block by photos? Most likely it has to be by matching credit card names and running a query through a banned people database in their system.
My Gawd Honey, you sound desperate. If you were getting so much attention on match why were you "harassing" the lady who flaked on you?

I guess this is akin to being banned from your favorite "watering hole" but guess what a real life watering hole awaits you. Get out and meet women.

This isn't the forum to get "how to hack match.com" secrets.
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Old 09-18-2017, 05:35 PM
 
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I actually have a lot to offer this subject. Do the following:

PrePaid Card - Register it to a name different from yours of course and a unique city.
Use a new computer (Laptop), get cheap one that can run the internet okay
You have to use a unique IP Address. This is key. Ask your ISP for a new modem and that will get you a new public IP.
Finally - the unique/new pictures is probably a good idea. Although, I don't believe that that Match will use the picture as a way to ID you initially. However, they may use your pics down the line...should the need arise.

Bro - don't listen to anyone regarding "Creep" status, etc. You go create yourself a new account and have a hella great time for as many years as you can. Trust me; the Ladies playing more games than you could count.

Good luck!
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Old 09-20-2017, 05:56 AM
 
Location: Born in L.A. - NYC is Second Home - Rustbelt is Home Base
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Girl didn't like you...Match didn't like you??? Better do some introspection OP.
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Old 04-04-2019, 01:33 PM
 
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Is there any way to find out why Match.com terminated my account and blocked me from ever using the site again.

I could list all my attributes and how respectful I am with other members. However, I'm most interested in understanding why they have made the decision to do this.

I read somewhere that if Match is contacted by a lawyer who sends a subpoena, you are able to find out why you are
blocked from the site.

Does anyone know if this is true?

Thank you,

Teri
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Old 04-04-2019, 03:28 PM
 
Location: Boulder, CO
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Just a random thought crossed my mind ... you go through all the hoops (new credit card, different IP address), create a new profile, and ... the gal sees your new profile and reports you. Even with different pictures, possibly. "You already kicked this creep off and he's back with a different name".


If you create the new profile, look up her profile and try to block HER as soon as you can, so you don't show up in her searches.
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