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You never came out and asked her out on a date directly, so you never gave her an opportunity to turn you down directly. She might very well be thinking you're playing games or just looking to get laid, or, quite frankly, figures if you wanted to date, you'd, you know, be an adult and be honest.
I know girls have this reflex to be nice but it seems like I've been led on like all the time. This girl I work with is kind of cute. Like nice body ugly face cute ( the worst kind). And we've hung out a few times. I went back to her place and gave a few STRONG HINTS that I was into her and nothing. Then a few weeks ago I text her saying "If I told you ,you were cute would you hold it against me?" And she sent one of those " awe thanks" ( in a very Unenthusiastic way). And after that I haven't heard anything from her? And I work with her so I have to see her. She switched from saying hi to me to not even turning my direction. Like why go through all that trouble? If Women can be more upfront like " Just to let you know im not looking for a relationship just a friend" then that would work but when I send strong body language and she has no idea its like do I need to put it in writing???
I could be wrong but aren't we adults? if I don't like a girl I will tell her in a very kind manner she's not my type. But for some reason women tend to just not say anything while you fantasize about a relationship that will never happen.
Perhaps she is aware that she is not all that cute, she could have some self esteem issues going on. She could be thinking you just want her for her body and a quick fling, then drop her once a pretty face comes along. Maybe she been down that road before, and tired of being dumped for a pretty face after having feelings for a guy.
I know girls have this reflex to be nice but it seems like I've been led on like all the time. This girl I work with is kind of cute. Like nice body ugly face cute ( the worst kind). And we've hung out a few times. I went back to her place and gave a few STRONG HINTS that I was into her and nothing. Then a few weeks ago I text her saying "If I told you ,you were cute would you hold it against me?" And she sent one of those " awe thanks" ( in a very Unenthusiastic way). And after that I haven't heard anything from her? And I work with her so I have to see her. She switched from saying hi to me to not even turning my direction. Like why go through all that trouble? If Women can be more upfront like " Just to let you know im not looking for a relationship just a friend" then that would work but when I send strong body language and she has no idea its like do I need to put it in writing???
I could be wrong but aren't we adults? if I don't like a girl I will tell her in a very kind manner she's not my type. But for some reason women tend to just not say anything while you fantasize about a relationship that will never happen.
You don't sound like an adult. why don't you be honest and tell her she's really ugly but has a good body, see where that gets you.
You don't sound like an adult. why don't you be honest and tell her she's really ugly but has a good body, see where that gets you.
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You text her saying she's cute. So you outright lied to her. Because you describe her as ugly. But if you tell her that, you knew she wouldn't want you. So you lied.
So that's why some people - men or women lie. It gets them whatever they may want, and the truth won't.
Last edited by HappyRain; 01-07-2016 at 06:00 PM..
If your interest is just getting laid then don't bother with this anymore and move on. If you really think you may be interested in really getting to know her and spend time with her, then ask her out on a real date and see what she says. Then you'll know the honest truth.
I know girls have this reflex to be nice but it seems like I've been led on like all the time. This girl I work with is kind of cute. Like nice body ugly face cute ( the worst kind). And we've hung out a few times. I went back to her place and gave a few STRONG HINTS that I was into her and nothing. Then a few weeks ago I text her saying "If I told you ,you were cute would you hold it against me?" And she sent one of those " awe thanks" ( in a very Unenthusiastic way). And after that I haven't heard anything from her? And I work with her so I have to see her. She switched from saying hi to me to not even turning my direction. Like why go through all that trouble? If Women can be more upfront like " Just to let you know im not looking for a relationship just a friend" then that would work but when I send strong body language and she has no idea its like do I need to put it in writing???
I could be wrong but aren't we adults? if I don't like a girl I will tell her in a very kind manner she's not my type. But for some reason women tend to just not say anything while you fantasize about a relationship that will never happen.
It sounds to me like you think that just because you don't find her that attractive, she should be responding favorably to your advances and be grateful that you're showing her some attention. However, your ego is bruised because that isn't happening.
I know girls have this reflex to be nice but it seems like I've been led on like all the time. This girl I work with is kind of cute. Like nice body ugly face cute ( the worst kind). And we've hung out a few times. I went back to her place and gave a few STRONG HINTS that I was into her and nothing. Then a few weeks ago I text her saying "If I told you ,you were cute would you hold it against me?" And she sent one of those " awe thanks" ( in a very Unenthusiastic way). And after that I haven't heard anything from her? And I work with her so I have to see her. She switched from saying hi to me to not even turning my direction. Like why go through all that trouble? If Women can be more upfront like " Just to let you know im not looking for a relationship just a friend" then that would work but when I send strong body language and she has no idea its like do I need to put it in writing???
I could be wrong but aren't we adults? if I don't like a girl I will tell her in a very kind manner she's not my type. But for some reason women tend to just not say anything while you fantasize about a relationship that will never happen.
" ugly face cute ( the worst kind ) " ?
Plus mate I think YOU read the whole situation wrong and she's not really done anything wrong or misleading to be fair.
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