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nice body ugly face cute (the worst kind) = butterface
Not sure what "the worst kind" refers to, but it doesn't sound flattering.
Yeah, I know what a butterface is. lol I just don't think he would be calling her ugly right now if she had responded to his advances the way he wanted her to. Obviously she wasn't too ugly to catch his attention, so I'm not sure why he's pointing that out now.
Yeah, I know what a butterface is. lol I just don't think he would be calling her ugly right now if she had responded to his advances the way he wanted her to. Obviously she wasn't too ugly to catch his attention, so I'm not sure why he's pointing that out now.
I know girls have this reflex to be nice but it seems like I've been led on like all the time. This girl I work with is kind of cute. Like nice body ugly face cute ( the worst kind). And we've hung out a few times. I went back to her place and gave a few STRONG HINTS that I was into her and nothing. Then a few weeks ago I text her saying "If I told you ,you were cute would you hold it against me?" And she sent one of those " awe thanks" ( in a very Unenthusiastic way). And after that I haven't heard anything from her? And I work with her so I have to see her. She switched from saying hi to me to not even turning my direction. Like why go through all that trouble? If Women can be more upfront like " Just to let you know im not looking for a relationship just a friend" then that would work but when I send strong body language and she has no idea its like do I need to put it in writing???
I could be wrong but aren't we adults? if I don't like a girl I will tell her in a very kind manner she's not my type. But for some reason women tend to just not say anything while you fantasize about a relationship that will never happen.
So the guy that let her know he was interested, not directly but via STRONG HINTS, is upset that the girl wasn't direct herself?? You're the man, take the lead, ask the girl out, leave no doubt it's a date. you;re shooting yourself in the foot calling it "hanging out".
The line btw is supposed to be "If I told you your BODY is hot, would you hold it against me?" Get it? Hold her body against you...
So the guy that let her know he was interested, not directly but via STRONG HINTS, is upset that the girl wasn't direct herself?? You're the man, take the lead, ask the girl out, leave no doubt it's a date. you;re shooting yourself in the foot calling it "hanging out".
The line btw is supposed to be "If I told you your BODY is hot, would you hold it against me?" Get it? Hold her body against you...
Yeah, or a nicer way to say it is "If I told you that you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?" Since he said he was dropping strong hints and that she DOES have a nice body, I don't know why he decided to use this line yet screw it up.
Sometimes we just think we're sparing hurting your feelings. It's not the right way to go about things, but it's just how it is. Plus it feels awkward when someone is attracted to you and you're not attracted back.
I'll bring this up at the next "What ALL women think" conference.
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You're in luck. There's one of those here every day!
Sometimes more than one a day.
True ^ . People, remember that gender bashing is not permitted and that making gross generalizations about any demographic is never a good thing.
Bashing of any sort by any poster will earn them an infraction. Just don't do it.
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