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Old 01-11-2016, 07:30 AM
 
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You COULD get her pregnant on the first time, just like you COULD get hit by a bus on your way to the Walgreens, and you COULD get gunned down by a sniper sitting at your desk at work, probably not going to happen, but I guess there is a chance. In life we call this "acceptable risk." OP said it's first "official date" which leads me to believe that they have already met, seen each other a couple times, texted 10 million times, etc. So the "not knowing her background crap is out the window, because he largely knows this.

If you were 17 and both virgins, fine wait a bit. Being adults here, why drag it out and wait? Unless you are both in on it, holding back obvious sexual attraction, then it's cool, but otherwise see if you are sexually compatible. You don't want to waste three months of your adult life with someone to find out they are the worst lay you will ever come across, and the "let's wait so it's special" crap means she wants to get banging all the other guys out of her system before she settles down with you. Good job on being 7th place in her life!

Look how many people on here had sex on first date and are now married, should tell you something!
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Old 01-11-2016, 07:44 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Um, no, not what I was talking about... you realize you can have hetero anal sex, right?
That's what is known as " going fishing " with my sarcasm LOL
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Old 01-11-2016, 08:05 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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If she offers, I'm definitely not gonna turn it down if "little Diss" is good with it. I need to drop this VCard somehow.
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Old 01-11-2016, 09:12 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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No ****ing way. That takes a great deal of familiarity, trust... and no less than a pint of Captain Morgan's.
And an Ambien please.
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Old 01-11-2016, 09:14 AM
 
Location: DFW
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And an Ambien please.
And plenty of really good lubrication.
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Old 01-11-2016, 09:15 AM
 
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And an Ambien please.
I've never been the "receiver", but as the "giver", it's a lot of fun, especially when you need to change things up... also, while most women who have never done it might be apprehensive, most end up liking it
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Old 01-11-2016, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I've never been the "receiver", but as the "giver", it's a lot of fun, especially when you need to change things up... also, while most women who have never done it might be apprehensive, most end up liking it

We talk. No we don't.


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Old 01-11-2016, 09:39 AM
 
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Old 01-11-2016, 09:43 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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what do you think?
If I don't get sex on the first date I move on. Theres plenty of woman who put out and the ones that don't aren't worth it.
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Old 01-11-2016, 09:47 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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If I don't get sex on the first date I move on. Theres plenty of woman who put out and the ones that don't aren't worth it.
I'm sure the ones that don't " put out " are REALLY missing out mate


Ever ask yourself why they didn't " put out " ???






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