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Old 01-10-2016, 01:24 PM
 
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Well, if you weren't a high school jock with rich parents you might as well hang it up as an adult.

If you live in a John Hughes movie, that is.

 
Old 01-10-2016, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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I think its being comfortable in your lifestyle and not wanting to risk it. Lets be honest what chance does a thirty five year old man who has never been in a relationship to get right? Like they say,"the grass isn't always greener".
Its all about money and status
 
Old 01-10-2016, 01:26 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Take a chance. Live a little!
 
Old 01-10-2016, 01:37 PM
 
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Its all about money and status
Thats the thing I don't care what its about I just wanted this lifestyle and thats why im comfortable with it. If your're doing this to get revenge or your're just unhappy now it won't work.
 
Old 01-10-2016, 01:39 PM
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Location: USA
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you might regret it later in life. At your age, I had no interest either. Now that I'm in my mid-30's, I find dating to be very tough
 
Old 01-10-2016, 02:06 PM
 
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Not partaking in something that is honestly just not for you is fine. Not partaking in something because you are afraid is no way to live your life. We learn by experience - our own experience.
Well, I'm not special so it would be no different with me.
 
Old 01-10-2016, 02:08 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Well, I'm not special so it would be no different with me.
What does being "special" have to do with it? Did you think only "special" people have partners?
 
Old 01-10-2016, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Well, I'm not special so it would be no different with me.
I have no idea what this means.
 
Old 01-10-2016, 02:11 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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OP: You sound like you should have little problem being single for a long time. I have a friend like this who is now in his late 50's. Women have been interested in him but not vice verse. He's not gay, its just women never have had much appeal to him. I've seen this in action. One day this very attractive women walked right in front of him. He never reacted and didn't even notice her.
 
Old 01-10-2016, 02:14 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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OP, you seem to harbor illusions about who is date-worthy, and what type of men women are interested in. The first thing to understand is that there's tremendous variety among men and women as to who they find attractive, what kinds of qualities they find attractive, etc. Women are not a monolithic entity that all think the same. This has been explained to you, but you don't seem to be absorbing that information, or believing it. Maybe there are self-esteem issues at play?
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