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For the most part my bf is a good loving caring and supportive person but on the other hands he's very selfish and I find myself constantly mad at him, hating him and wanting more. In the beginning I did whatever he asked WHENEVER he asked, however I don't anymore. He wants sex NO he wants a massage NO... Basically all the small things I use to enjoy I now hate... Why? He doesn't do anything for me. Don't get me wrong he's not completely worthless but when I really want something from him like a massage after a long day, he ******* and complains. I want sex... He's not horny, I want help cleaning up or taking out trash when it becomes to much for me to handle, he tells me that's my job, . We both provide financially sometimes I bring home a bigger check then him. On top of all that he expects me to cook clean and tend to our daughter while he just lays around and watches TV. In the end he helps but he nags and ******* and complains.
REAL STORY: two nights ago we went grocery shopping at 12am and got home pretty late. When we got home he wanted me to cook dinner I told him I was exhausted and didn't have the energy. I put away all the groceries away by myself, cleaned out the cabinets, took out the trash washed dishes and put all the food away. That took me almost 2 hours. It took so long because I kept taking breaks because my back was aching. It was around 2:30am. Once I finished I took a shower and made us chilli dogs because it was simple. The entire night I complained my back was killing me REMIND YOU I'm 4 months pregnant. While he's eating I put our daughter to sleep. I make me a bowl of fruit its about 3:30 I get in bed and he begins to nag asking me why am I eating and that he's tired and I should go in the living room. He cuts the TV off and I become FURIOUS. I'm pregnant, its 3 am I've been on my feet 3 hours cleaning and shopping and he gets mad because I'm eating a snack? He can be extremely incentive at times and he takes all I do for granted and doesn't appreciate it. On top of that
There is no his job/her job, there are chores that need to be done, talk to him, get it worked out, keep your private life between the two of you. Why do you have a child out at midnight and not in bed until wee hours of the morning?
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REAL STORY: two nights ago we went grocery shopping at 12am and got home pretty late. When we got home he wanted me to cook dinner I told him I was exhausted and didn't have the energy. I put away all the groceries away by myself, cleaned out the cabinets, took out the trash washed dishes and put all the food away. That took me almost 2 hours. It took so long because I kept taking breaks because my back was aching. It was around 2:30am. Once I finished I took a shower and made us chilli dogs because it was simple. The entire night I complained my back was killing me REMIND YOU I'm 4 months pregnant. While he's eating I put our daughter to sleep. I make me a bowl of fruit its about 3:30 I get in bed and he begins to nag asking me why am I eating and that he's tired and I should go in the living room. He cuts the TV off and I become FURIOUS. I'm pregnant, its 3 am I've been on my feet 3 hours cleaning and shopping and he gets mad because I'm eating a snack? He can be extremely incentive at times and he takes all I do for granted and doesn't appreciate it. On top of that
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that your child is a nursing infant who wakes up for a feeding in the middle of the night (I have one, so am not aghast at a baby being up at midnight, 2:30 for a feeding), and not entertain the idea that you just don't routinely put your kid to bed until after 2 a.m. Of course, that would also entail me assuming that you left the child with a babysitter and didn't take her on your midnight grocery run. I assume this is the case, because anything else is keeping a crazy, unstable schedule for a child.
At any rate, assuming this is real, you need more stability, in your life, in your partner, in your relationship. Sticking with what you've got going on right now isn't going to cut it, so make some changes. It sounds like too erratic a situation and household for two children.
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and cleaning at midnight????
