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Old 01-16-2016, 04:40 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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There is a lot of generalization here.... (I am also Asian)

Most of the female Asians I know are in the medical field... mostly around nursing.

You should join science and technical groups.... you'll meet the few females that would understand your interests in the topic. Around here there are technical groups in the computer sciences that meet monthly and quite active. I may work in the technical field but never dated a woman in it.
Yeah, there is.

OP, buy a Honda Civic slammed with a huge spoiler / noisy tail pipe and cruise by nail shops

Lmao

 
Old 01-16-2016, 04:42 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yeah, there is.

OP, buy a Honda Civic slammed with a huge spoiler / noisy tail pipe and cruise by nail shops

Lmao

Since were draggin out stereotypes, you forgot to mention the spiky gelled hair that is/used to be so common amongst my Asian brothers...
 
Old 01-16-2016, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Since were draggin out stereotypes, you forgot to mention the spiky gelled hair that is/used to be so common amongst my Asian brothers...
Hey now, I'm sporting that look
 
Old 01-16-2016, 04:55 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Hey now, I'm sporting that look

LOL, aren't Hawaiians a flavor of Asain, or somehow related, I'm an ogre and don't pay attention to that sort of thing... LOL...

People are just people to me, but some people get all technical about stuff... LOL


Back before I grew my hair out I had me some spikage at one point.
 
Old 01-16-2016, 04:57 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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Oh.. that's what I've been doing wrong... I look military (so I have been told).

Hawaii is considered Pacific Islander.. many of the peoples in the Pacific can trace their roots to Polynesians.
 
Old 01-16-2016, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Being a guy full or sexual desire and not able to enjoy it is very hard. During my college years I met few quite shy Asian women because I'm shy myself so I thought would be a good fit for me. I never had any luck. I think its because I have a brown skin tone and majority of Asians don't like such skin tone. I never tired American women because I feel they are too wild for me. I'm shy, quiet reserved guy who does not like to party and go to bars. Since that never worked for me I just gave up and hope maybe some random woman may approach me say at a coffee shop or bus stop and maybe I would have luck. That has never happen either. One thing I know is I'm becoming very sexually frustrated as I get older because I'm not able to enjoy one my natural biological functions. So recently I started thinking of using escorts and may as well at this point in life as I'm on track of dying as a virgin, then if that happens my spirit become angry soul in the after life.

I sort of feel that escorts are the last options I pretty much have that would let me have my first sexual encounter. Without escorts I for sure will die as a virgin. I guess being in San Francisco whee the number of men out number women is making it extremely difficult for me. So I'm deciding should I wait or just go with this escort since the majority of woman do not want a virgin guy at my age. I also heard the older you the harder it becomes. Sound like an escort is really becoming a better option for me at this point, at least one that offers GFE service.
You're a virgin. You don't have to worry about STD''s, unwanted pregnancies, and no crazy baby mother's. Nothing wrong with it man.
 
Old 01-16-2016, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Between West Chester and Chester, PA
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Being a guy full or sexual desire and not able to enjoy it is very hard. During my college years I met few quite shy Asian women because I'm shy myself so I thought would be a good fit for me. I never had any luck. I think its because I have a brown skin tone and majority of Asians don't like such skin tone. I never tired American women because I feel they are too wild for me. I'm shy, quiet reserved guy who does not like to party and go to bars. Since that never worked for me I just gave up and hope maybe some random woman may approach me say at a coffee shop or bus stop and maybe I would have luck. That has never happen either. One thing I know is I'm becoming very sexually frustrated as I get older because I'm not able to enjoy one my natural biological functions. So recently I started thinking of using escorts and may as well at this point in life as I'm on track of dying as a virgin, then if that happens my spirit become angry soul in the after life.

I sort of feel that escorts are the last options I pretty much have that would let me have my first sexual encounter. Without escorts I for sure will die as a virgin. I guess being in San Francisco whee the number of men out number women is making it extremely difficult for me. So I'm deciding should I wait or just go with this escort since the majority of woman do not want a virgin guy at my age. I also heard the older you the harder it becomes. Sound like an escort is really becoming a better option for me at this point, at least one that offers GFE service.
Go get yourself a prostitute. They don't discriminate as long as the dollar amount is right. If street girls aren't your thing, set up something between a gal (or two) at the Moonlight Bunny Ranch.
 
Old 01-16-2016, 05:54 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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Losing virginity with an escort?

However I still think it would be healthier to try to reach out and meet women...
 
Old 01-16-2016, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Clovis Strong, NM
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Warning... rude crude and very unPC comments coming... you've been warned, you can clck the back button still....










How in the hell do you make it to 30 without getting a taste... I mean really, I was never much of a lady killer in my youth, but damn... I mean just take a trip to Vegas if you need to.... You almost have to work at not being able to meet a woman/man to have a roll in the hay as they say I'm not the most socially hip person and I manage to lose mine. I mean you really need to be some kind of social outcast to get to 30 or worse 40 without sampling the wares......


Sorry to be mean, but I'm just sick of these damn virgin threads already.
The sabers have been rattled.

I ask myself the same question from time to time and think it had to do with a lot of negative conditioning from a younger age.
However, I feel I'm kind of past that trauma and now ready to go out and make small talk.
But this time around, it could be a two way thing.
I'm not into country girls, and all the same they're not into urban guys who stick out like a sore thumb in areas like the one I'm living in right now.

That said, I'm looking at other ways to get the means met.
Changing locales back to a major urban center, switching careers to better put myself out there.
 
Old 01-16-2016, 06:17 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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The sabers have been rattled.

I ask myself the same question from time to time and think it had to do with a lot of negative conditioning from a younger age.
However, I feel I'm kind of past that trauma and now ready to go out and make small talk.
But this time around, it could be a two way thing.
I'm not into country girls, and all the same they're not into urban guys who stick out like a sore thumb in areas like the one I'm living in right now.

That said, I'm looking at other ways to get the means met.
Changing locales back to a major urban center, switching careers to better put myself out there.
That's a very good plan and attitude mate

I hope you find success soon
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