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I’ve been going out with a 23 yo guy for about 3 months (about once to twice per week). He hasn’t dated much and he said his longest relationship was around 6 months. However, he’s not a virgin. He’s been taking things super slow with me. We kissed on the third date and still haven’t gone past 1st base. He used to text me every few days to set up a date. When I told him I’d like to hear from him more often, he’s now texting me at least once every other day but always takes a long time to reply.
He’s a nice guy and I’m attracted to him. He’s introduced me to a couple of his friends and I’ve met some of his. This past weekend, I asked him if he would like to become official, he said he’s not seeing anyone else right now but he’s not ready to commit to a relationship with me yet. He’d like to keep going like this for a while until he makes up his mind. He said he likes me and sees a potential together. He also said he’s hesitant because of how busy school is right now. I just get the vibe that he’s not that into me and Idk if I should bail or give him more time since we’ve been taking things slow. What do you think?
I’ve been going out with a 23 yo guy for about 3 months (about once to twice per week). He hasn’t dated much and he said his longest relationship was around 6 months. However, he’s not a virgin. He’s been taking things super slow with me. We kissed on the third date and still haven’t gone past 1st base. He used to text me every few days to set up a date. When I told him I’d like to hear from him more often, he’s now texting me at least once every other day but always takes a long time to reply.
He’s a nice guy and I’m attracted to him. He’s introduced me to a couple of his friends and I’ve met some of his. This past weekend, I asked him if he would like to become official, he said he’s not seeing anyone else right now but he’s not ready to commit to a relationship with me yet. He’d like to keep going like this for a while until he makes up his mind. He said he likes me and sees a potential together. He also said he’s hesitant because of how busy school is right now. I just get the vibe that he’s not that into me and Idk if I should bail or give him more time since we’ve been taking things slow. What do you think?
Dump him and start dating other guys. If he really likes you then he will chase you. Some red flags here: For one, he is taking things super slow- after 3 months not trying to get past 1st base? Either he is gay or not attracted to you. 2
When guys are interested in a girl there isn't any doubt. We don't need to make up our minds, we want you from date one. And there is no such thing as too busy, only too busy for YOU.
Young women on here- always remember this: when a guy wants you he leaves no doubt about it. This guy is just hanging with you until someone "better" comes along. Move on.
Dump him and start dating other guys. If he really likes you then he will chase you. Some red flags here: For one, he is taking things super slow- after 3 months not trying to get past 1st base? Either he is gay or not attracted to you. 2
When guys are interested in a girl there isn't any doubt. We don't need to make up our minds, we want you from date one. And there is no such thing as too busy, only too busy for YOU.
Young women on here- always remember this: when a guy wants you he leaves no doubt about it. This guy is just hanging with you until someone "better" comes along. Move on.
This, kind of. I agree he's not that into you. Guys who are into you are usually not hesitant, especially after 3 months
I disagree that you want him to chase you after you start dating someone else. Who wants a guy who only wants her when she decides to date others?
This, kind of. I agree he's not that into you. Guys who are into you are usually not hesitant, especially after 3 months
I disagree that you want him to chase you after you start dating someone else. Who wants a guy who only wants her when she decides to date others?
I wasn't very clear, not that she would want him to chase, but it would indicate he does have interest. A lot of guys only want what they can't have. Either way I think she should move on.
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