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View Poll Results: Ladies, do you experince painful sex?
Yes, Always 3 4.17%
Yes, Often 4 5.56%
Yes, sometimes 13 18.06%
Yes, but rarely 16 22.22%
No, never 13 18.06%
Umm, havent had any yet! 4 5.56%
Guy - Lemme vote 19 26.39%
Voters: 72. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-07-2008, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Tucson, AZ
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So, I've only had a bit of pain once... it was due to his, um, size. While a lot of people would think that that would be a good thing, that's not necessarily true. So, there were certain positions that worked, others YIKES!!

Somebody else was right on about the foreplay thing too... dry friction is not a good thing.
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Old 02-07-2008, 12:14 PM
 
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So, I've only had a bit of pain once... it was due to his, um, size. While a lot of people would think that that would be a good thing, that's not necessarily true. So, there were certain positions that worked, others YIKES!!

Somebody else was right on about the foreplay thing too... dry friction is not a good thing.
Yes, this is true which is why I think there needs to be distinction made between "good" and "bad" pain.

IMO, Pain from size to the point where I'm having stomach cramps afterward = VERY bad...I mean, I would like my insides NOT to be all battered and bruised after the act .

Pain from "friction" is definitely a BAD pain and it can send you flying through the roof when you go to "twinkle" right afterward . NOT nice guys.

The "good" pain that I'm referring to is somewhat indescribable. It kinda hurts, but feels good at the same time. That's the best I can describe it, and it can come from a nice size or just hitting the "right" spot.
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Old 02-07-2008, 12:44 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Its a good thing those dont work

otherwise, EVERY woman would experience pain EVERY time!
Oh my, I never even thought of that. What would happen if guys really had a choice in how many pounds of sugar they could carry? Silly, I know, but I think they would all want the most they could possibly carry without breaking their backs! God is good, we aren't all the same by design. Every pot has a lid sort of thing.

Ditto on the 4-play - when done correctly, there really shouldn't be any BAD pain.
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Old 02-07-2008, 04:15 PM
 
Location: Tampa
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Yes, this is true which is why I think there needs to be distinction made between "good" and "bad" pain.

IMO, Pain from size to the point where I'm having stomach cramps afterward = VERY bad...I mean, I would like my insides NOT to be all battered and bruised after the act .

Pain from "friction" is definitely a BAD pain and it can send you flying through the roof when you go to "twinkle" right afterward . NOT nice guys.

The "good" pain that I'm referring to is somewhat indescribable. It kinda hurts, but feels good at the same time. That's the best I can describe it, and it can come from a nice size or just hitting the "right" spot.
so many great replies...

still feel bad for some of the ladies though
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Old 02-07-2008, 04:29 PM
 
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Patience and understanding.....

A desire to make you partner feel more at ease than yourself.... "what can I do to make it (and you) feel more comfortable........... that's what brings a smile to my face
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Old 02-07-2008, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Tampa
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Patience and understanding.....

A desire to make you partner feel more at ease than yourself.... "what can I do to make it (and you) feel more comfortable........... that's what brings a smile to my face
I wouldnt say that out loud in Saudi Arabia!
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Old 02-07-2008, 05:31 PM
 
Location: the show-me state
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I'm afraid to touch that with a 10 foot pole.
Don't give cyrstalblue any ideas. As much as he loves polls, he will end up having a : poll about poles!
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Old 02-07-2008, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Don't give cyrstalblue any ideas. As much as he loves polls, he will end up having a : poll about poles!
Well it better be stout, that is if he wants a painful poll!
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Old 02-07-2008, 06:30 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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I'm trying to find the right way to word things in this thread without blantly saying what's on my mind but.....it's hard,ha....."it's hard" bahaha


speaking of that you know ladies us guys can experience pain from sex also....well actually right after ,,,cough....release.It's sensitive and when a woman doesn't stop doing the" icecream cone trick" a guy can go "whoa!!!!"....."arghhhh"...."ok ok!"


sheesh I ain't complaining though.
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Old 02-07-2008, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Tampa
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I'm trying to find the right way to word things in this thread without blantly saying what's on my mind but.....it's hard,ha....."it's hard" bahaha


speaking of that you know ladies us guys can experience pain from sex also....well actually right after ,,,cough....release.It's sensitive and when a woman doesn't stop doing the" icecream cone trick" a guy can go "whoa!!!!"....."arghhhh"...."ok ok!"


sheesh I ain't complaining though.
speaking of that, ive heard of guys that "break" it

it doesnt sound pleasant!
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