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View Poll Results: Guys, would you consider a mail order bride?
Heck Yeah! 37 19.68%
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Heck No! 96 51.06%
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Old 12-11-2008, 05:45 PM
 
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I totally agree. I think it's about time for men in this country to wake up. Although both men and women can be vain, in america, major companies totally capitalize on the woman's vanity. Sadly, women get trained to think that the most important thing in the world both to men and women is what they look like, and how much interest they can collect from men. Trapped in this mess of vanity marketing, they have trouble distinguishing the good men from the bad.
One thing most of these men never think about. Is that american culture is in those countries. The women have been exposed and know. Whats different is that many of these women are very good at manipulation. Thats it, they are no different than american women.
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Old 12-11-2008, 06:00 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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One thing most of these men never think about. Is that american culture is in those countries. The women have been exposed and know. Whats different is that many of these women are very good at manipulation. Thats it, they are no different than american women.
Thank you for saying this.

American men are suffering from the "Grass is Greener" complex. They are looking for the last supply of women in the world who will do WHATEVER their husbands tell them to do and it just doesn't really exist anymore....anywhere!
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Old 12-11-2008, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Tampa
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Thank you for saying this.

American men are suffering from the "Grass is Greener" complex. They are looking for the last supply of women in the world who will do WHATEVER their husbands tell them to do and it just doesn't really exist anymore....anywhere!
not even fembots...

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Old 12-11-2008, 06:25 PM
 
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American men are suffering from the "Grass is Greener" complex. They are looking for the last supply of women in the world who will do WHATEVER their husbands tell them to do and it just doesn't really exist anymore....anywhere!
In the Muslim world there are still millions of submissive housewives who's only goal in life is to please their husbands.
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Old 12-11-2008, 08:30 PM
 
Location: Anchorage, Ak
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I will say this. If foreign women are different than American women, it's a cultural thing and when you remove that woman from her culture into America, guess what happens.

I've experienced the difference between South American women and North American women and there is a distinct cultural difference. Even, to a lesser extant, with S American women living in the USA. Just for one example, in general latinas hold eye contact and smile more openly than american women. For all the talk of looking at their eyes instead of their breasts, trying to look your average american woman in the eyes is like trying to catch a mouse with your bare hands.

So in my experience, this trait along with others makes the approach and courtship, even just friendship, much more enjoyable with latina women. And it has nothing to do with being submissive, doing what I say, cleaning my house or anything else. I'm not looking for a wife or a trophy for my arm, I am simply looking for an enjoyable interaction that is hard to find with American women. PUT DOWN YOUR B*TCH SHIELDS, PLEASE. Courtship would be much more fun if you did.
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Old 12-11-2008, 08:42 PM
 
Location: Tampa
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I will say this. If foreign women are different than American women, it's a cultural thing and when you remove that woman from her culture into America, guess what happens.

I've experienced the difference between South American women and North American women and there is a distinct cultural difference. Even, to a lesser extant, with S American women living in the USA. Just for one example, in general latinas hold eye contact and smile more openly than american women. For all the talk of looking at their eyes instead of their breasts, trying to look your average american woman in the eyes is like trying to catch a mouse with your bare hands.

So in my experience, this trait along with others makes the approach and courtship, even just friendship, much more enjoyable with latina women. And it has nothing to do with being submissive, doing what I say, cleaning my house or anything else. I'm not looking for a wife or a trophy for my arm, I am simply looking for an enjoyable interaction that is hard to find with American women. PUT DOWN YOUR B*TCH SHIELDS, PLEASE. Courtship would be much more fun if you did.
Ive noticed this as well. Cant even smile at someone anymore...

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Old 12-11-2008, 09:28 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Thank you for saying this.

American men are suffering from the "Grass is Greener" complex. They are looking for the last supply of women in the world who will do WHATEVER their husbands tell them to do and it just doesn't really exist anymore....anywhere!

Let's be clear. Any guy who is looking for a submissive slave for a woman is an idiot.

I think that the concentration of vain money only women is in the US. I think that most US women 39 and younger are not really looking for a man because their options to find a man are overwhelmingly ubiquitous. A girl can just check her profile 'inbox' and take her pick.

What about you single guys? How's it going? Let me guess.. if you are under 30 well really 28 and hot, I think you probably have pretty good options and my advice would be to stick with the best girl you can. If you are anything other than that, boy your $50,000+ a year really better show.. (or really 75k)

American men are not suffering from 'greener grass' syndrome, they are suffering from "vain/money women" syndrome.

I honestly think that there are not many US women actually interested in men at all. They are interested in themselves, their looks, their clothes, their make-up, what their friends think about those things, how many men's heads they can turn in one day, how that compares to how many heads her friend turned that day, and on and on.

In other words, US women are sinking and becoming more and more shallow due to the propaganda by major companies' ad campaigns.

What's wrong with a woman who works the house for her man? Men in the US seem to have no problem working and paying out their cash to women who are not even their wives! The model of the husbands with the 'stay at home' moms works very well for a lot of people.

The issue is finding decent women in the US who are truly interested in a marital relationship.
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Old 12-11-2008, 09:44 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I will say this. If foreign women are different than American women, it's a cultural thing and when you remove that woman from her culture into America, guess what happens.

I've experienced the difference between South American women and North American women and there is a distinct cultural difference. Even, to a lesser extant, with S American women living in the USA. Just for one example, in general latinas hold eye contact and smile more openly than american women. For all the talk of looking at their eyes instead of their breasts, trying to look your average american woman in the eyes is like trying to catch a mouse with your bare hands.

So in my experience, this trait along with others makes the approach and courtship, even just friendship, much more enjoyable with latina women. And it has nothing to do with being submissive, doing what I say, cleaning my house or anything else. I'm not looking for a wife or a trophy for my arm, I am simply looking for an enjoyable interaction that is hard to find with American women. PUT DOWN YOUR B*TCH SHIELDS, PLEASE. Courtship would be much more fun if you did.


Oh yes. the webcam .. shall I even go there? Because of the 'US type' womans extreme vanity they don't do live eye contact anymore. Many, especially the younger sector of US women are busy making money with that cam.

they are not really being 'b's' they are just trapped in that Maybelene commercial...

You are so right about hispanic women, especially the ones left that have basic decency and honor towards men left in their hearts-- I love them!!

and your right again, it has nothing to do with submissiveness.
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Old 12-11-2008, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Let's be clear. Any guy who is looking for a submissive slave for a woman is an idiot.

I think that the concentration of vain money only women is in the US. I think that most US women 39 and younger are not really looking for a man because their options to find a man are overwhelmingly ubiquitous. A girl can just check her profile 'inbox' and take her pick.

What about you single guys? How's it going? Let me guess.. if you are under 30 well really 28 and hot, I think you probably have pretty good options and my advice would be to stick with the best girl you can. If you are anything other than that, boy your $50,000+ a year really better show.. (or really 75k)

American men are not suffering from 'greener grass' syndrome, they are suffering from "vain/money women" syndrome.

I honestly think that there are not many US women actually interested in men at all. They are interested in themselves, their looks, their clothes, their make-up, what their friends think about those things, how many men's heads they can turn in one day, how that compares to how many heads her friend turned that day, and on and on.

In other words, US women are sinking and becoming more and more shallow due to the propaganda by major companies' ad campaigns.

What's wrong with a woman who works the house for her man? Men in the US seem to have no problem working and paying out their cash to women who are not even their wives! The model of the husbands with the 'stay at home' moms works very well for a lot of people.

The issue is finding decent women in the US who are truly interested in a marital relationship.
Interesting. I am a good looking man and knew foreigner girls in college, very easy to approach. Do not get me wrong there are some cool American women.

I would not mind going to other countries and dating just to experience it...
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Old 12-11-2008, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Let's be clear. Any guy who is looking for a submissive slave for a woman is an idiot.

I think that the concentration of vain money only women is in the US. I think that most US women 39 and younger are not really looking for a man because their options to find a man are overwhelmingly ubiquitous. A girl can just check her profile 'inbox' and take her pick.

What about you single guys? How's it going? Let me guess.. if you are under 30 well really 28 and hot, I think you probably have pretty good options and my advice would be to stick with the best girl you can. If you are anything other than that, boy your $50,000+ a year really better show.. (or really 75k)

American men are not suffering from 'greener grass' syndrome, they are suffering from "vain/money women" syndrome.

I honestly think that there are not many US women actually interested in men at all. They are interested in themselves, their looks, their clothes, their make-up, what their friends think about those things, how many men's heads they can turn in one day, how that compares to how many heads her friend turned that day, and on and on.

In other words, US women are sinking and becoming more and more shallow due to the propaganda by major companies' ad campaigns.

What's wrong with a woman who works the house for her man? Men in the US seem to have no problem working and paying out their cash to women who are not even their wives! The model of the husbands with the 'stay at home' moms works very well for a lot of people.

The issue is finding decent women in the US who are truly interested in a marital relationship.
Note the higher rates of female bisexuality in American compared to places like Brazil.
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