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Old 02-03-2016, 12:29 AM
 
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OP, for what it's worth to inform you, there is a technique out there in the world that is part of what is known as Game where the man intentionally constantly disappoints the girl just like what is happening here. The theory is that this behavior does not lose the woman's attention but keeps her engaged in this until he eventually (er, maybe) summons her to come to him. And then she comes to him. The theory moves on from there into other stages.

I apologize to say, but if that theory has any merit (and there are men "out there" who believe it does have merit), and if if if your ex is now employing that theory, then you are now also performing according to that theory.

For what it's worth.
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Old 02-03-2016, 04:32 AM
 
Location: Europe
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Because I still love him thats why im still expecting his word
You supposed to not love someone who is bad guy toward you

Love yourself instead, be good girl toward you and keep a 1. priority in the future that a guy is good guy toward you. Then you learn to know what love is.

Love is appreciating, not dissmissing
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Old 02-03-2016, 04:34 AM
 
Location: Europe
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OP, for what it's worth to inform you, there is a technique out there in the world that is part of what is known as Game where the man intentionally constantly disappoints the girl just like what is happening here. The theory is that this behavior does not lose the woman's attention but keeps her engaged in this until he eventually (er, maybe) summons her to come to him. And then she comes to him. The theory moves on from there into other stages.

I apologize to say, but if that theory has any merit (and there are men "out there" who believe it does have merit), and if if if your ex is now employing that theory, then you are now also performing according to that theory.

For what it's worth.

There is so much games which some guys are playing that it is the best to put end of all games and find a someone who is not a playa.
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Old 02-04-2016, 11:46 AM
 
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Because I still love him thats why im still expecting his word
So, basically, you set yourself up for this:



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Old 02-04-2016, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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Hello everyone!

But he always break his promises to meet up. Everytime he will say lets meet on this day so we can talk, he's phone was always off. why he always does break his promises?

Thanks
Maybe he's thinking the two of you might get together for sex, and he finds another/different opportunity or is just not that motivated by the thought.
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Old 02-04-2016, 10:43 PM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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Because I still love him thats why im still expecting his word
Just because you love someone it doesn't mean you should be with them.

This guy is a player and is using you. Talk is cheap. His actions reveal who he truly is and since he always breaks his promises you know he's a liar and untrustworthy, which are not qualities you should be looking for. You deserve better.
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Old 02-06-2016, 06:15 AM
 
Location: Pa
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He's got another girl and enjoys toying with you.
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