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Old 01-27-2016, 11:53 AM
 
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I was thinking the same thing. He knows someone was having sex but he didn't see exactly who it was. Well, maybe he saw the person on top clearly enough but not who was on the bottom.

OP you don't even know for sure what you're telling.

The only person who I'd consider mentioning it to is your buddy who owns the place, and even then I'd only stick to what I saw without being definite about who the other person was. He at least deserves to know people were getting busy outside his place of business.
Exactly. You saw figures humping, the windows were fogged up, it was raining so you don't know who was humping in the cars, the only reason you believe there was cheating happening is because you recognized the cars. That doesn't mean much of anything without physically seeing the people involved-which in your post you admit that you did not.

At this point just be ignorant op-ignorance is bliss in a situation that you aren't certain about.

 
Old 01-27-2016, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Arizona
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Don't get involved.
 
Old 01-27-2016, 11:59 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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OP did not even see WHO was in the car... so there is nothing to tell.
 
Old 01-27-2016, 12:07 PM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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Do you think your buddy want to know? Some siblings rather leave it, if your answer is yes then go ahead and tell, or drop hints for his awareness. If not, but you want to get off your chest and do your part for justice, drop the hints to his sister instead.
Does she works in the shop also and they didn't know you were visiting?
 
Old 01-27-2016, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Personally, there is potential for drama here that makes the Maury show look like a day at the beach. I'd forget everything I saw and never mention it again.
 
Old 01-27-2016, 12:18 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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Exactly. You saw figures humping, the windows were fogged up, it was raining so you don't know who was humping in the cars, the only reason you believe there was cheating happening is because you recognized the cars. That doesn't mean much of anything without physically seeing the people involved-which in your post you admit that you did not.

At this point just be ignorant op-ignorance is bliss in a situation that you aren't certain about.
Really?
 
Old 01-27-2016, 12:18 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Really
 
Old 01-27-2016, 12:24 PM
 
Location: New Orleans, LA
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Do you think your buddy want to know? Some siblings rather leave it, if your answer is yes then go ahead and tell, or drop hints for his awareness. If not, but you want to get off your chest and do your part for justice, drop the hints to his sister instead.
Does she works in the shop also and they didn't know you were visiting?
She stop at the shop sometimes. So used to work at the shop once ( at the other shop before a move).
 
Old 01-27-2016, 12:27 PM
 
Location: DFW
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She stop at the shop sometimes. So used to work at the shop once ( at the other shop before a move).
What would you like to do?

I'd ask him if it was any good.
 
Old 01-27-2016, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Central TX
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Mind your business and butt out of others relationships. Don't be a rat. She'll get caught eventually.

Or, tell her husband and maybe they'll work it out and have the best marriage once they work though the years of pain and misery.
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