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Why? I just don't understand people that are willing to check their self respect at the door because someone is hot.
I do understand why you don't understand based on what you've shared on the forum. I know Dissenter has said that he's had opportunities with women he wasn't attracted to and he didn't want to pursue those opportunities. He also knows what it's like to be single for a long period of time. So for him, putting up with a little crap to to get with a woman he finds attractive might be worth it to him. Yes, that limit of how much crap to put up with may be different for everyone depending on a number of factors, but I can understand how he feels.
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I do understand why you don't understand based on what you've shared on the forum. I know Dissenter has said that he's had opportunities with women he wasn't attracted to and he didn't want to pursue those opportunities. He also knows what it's like to be single for a long period of time. So for him, putting up with a little crap to to get with a woman he finds attractive might be worth it to him. Yes, that limit of how much crap to put up with may be different for everyone depending on a number of factors, but I can understand how he feels.
Hell, no. Unless there were seriously extenuating circumstances (Illness, car accident, seriously awful day at work) and some serious apologies forthcoming, then no way.
I actually had that happen to me once. But the girl had been in a wreck. She wasn't injured, but she had to take her friend, the driver, to the hospital. And, yes, I did find out that she was telling the truth.
Here's the scenario: It's Friday or Saturday, 8 p.m. You agreed to meet for dinner and send a text saying you just got there and can meet them in front. 5 minutes go by and you get a text back from them saying they forgot and can't meet tonight...but they want to reschedule.
Do you do it? Why or why not?
I wouldn't be at the restaurant without confirming the day that we were meeting for dinner.
So it's kind of a hypothetical situation for me. I've had people make excuses at the last minute though after confirming plans for a date. Ultimately the result has been in hindsight that they just weren't that interested in me.
Here's the scenario: It's Friday or Saturday, 8 p.m. You agreed to meet for dinner and send a text saying you just got there and can meet them in front. 5 minutes go by and you get a text back from them saying they forgot and can't meet tonight...but they want to reschedule.
Do you do it? Why or why not?
If they really "forgot" - screw them. If they can't be bothered to remember a DATE, they aren't worth dating.
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