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Old 02-02-2016, 07:12 AM
 
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I've been dating a girl for about a month and things were just perfect. So I took things too seriously and showed too much interest what made her lost interest in me so we stopped dating. A month after a break up we still talk sometimes (sms/fb/snapchat) but not much, like once a week a few messages. But I don't feel like she's interested.

now the thing... Today she came to my school to meet her bestfriend. When she was waiting for her she has been talking to her bestfriends boyfriend. They were sitting next too my locker. So when i came to change they started to have a conversation about a guy she is dating now (his friend). The conversation they were having was so obvious to be made up before. He asked her about that guy (a friend of his) she's dating and she said, he doesnt text her back and that they were only on 1 date.. the other was just some random talk. I said nothing expect bye when I left. By the way me and her friends boyfriend hate each other.

I think she's still dating that guy but I don't know why would she say so obviously that in front of me?


Shes known for not being mean to anyone. She's a nice girl.
I still love her but I think she knows i'm texting a girl who is a perf10, but there is nothing serious yet.

What is the best think I can do?
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Old 02-02-2016, 07:22 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I've been dating a girl for about a month and things were just perfect. So I took things too seriously and showed too much interest what made her lost interest in me so we stopped dating. A month after a break up we still talk sometimes (sms/fb/snapchat) but not much, like once a week a few messages. But I don't feel like she's interested.

now the thing... Today she came to my school to meet her bestfriend. When she was waiting for her she has been talking to her bestfriends boyfriend. They were sitting next too my locker. So when i came to change they started to have a conversation about a guy she is dating now (his friend). The conversation they were having was so obvious to be made up before. He asked her about that guy (a friend of his) she's dating and she said, he doesnt text her back and that they were only on 1 date.. the other was just some random talk. I said nothing expect bye when I left. By the way me and her friends boyfriend hate each other.

I think she's still dating that guy but I don't know why would she say so obviously that in front of me?


Shes known for not being mean to anyone. She's a nice girl.
I still love her but I think she knows i'm texting a girl who is a perf10, but there is nothing serious yet.

What is the best think I can do?
There are a couple things you can do:

1) Don't read too much into stuff like that. She may or may not have been trying to make you jealous. If she WAS, better to find out that she's a shallow and childish early rather than later. If she wasn't, who cares?

2) No one is a perfect 10. Learn that now. We are all human, with faults. So yay, you're talking to a girl you like! Don't let her good qualities blind you to any red flags that may exist.

3) Don't hate. You and that guy don't have to be BFFs, but you don't have to HATE each other. Be confident in yourself and learn not to be influenced by what YOU THINK other people think about you.

Most of them are too worried about themselves to think about you that much anyway.
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Old 02-02-2016, 07:22 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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What is the best think I can do?
Grow up.
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Old 02-02-2016, 07:36 AM
 
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There are a couple things you can do:

1) Don't read too much into stuff like that. She may or may not have been trying to make you jealous. If she WAS, better to find out that she's a shallow and childish early rather than later. If she wasn't, who cares?

2) No one is a perfect 10. Learn that now. We are all human, with faults. So yay, you're talking to a girl you like! Don't let her good qualities blind you to any red flags that may exist.

3) Don't hate. You and that guy don't have to be BFFs, but you don't have to HATE each other. Be confident in yourself and learn not to be influenced by what YOU THINK other people think about you.

Most of them are too worried about themselves to think about you that much anyway.
1) She is definitely making me jealous, bacause weeks ago she also sent me snapchat selfie with him.
2) I never said I liked her. She's just hot.
3) Well I have to hate him because he's doing all he can to convince her i'm a bad person.. With lies ofcouse.
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Old 02-02-2016, 07:39 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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1) She is definitely making me jealous, bacause weeks ago she also sent me snapchat selfie with him.
2) I never said I liked her. She's just hot.
3) Well I have to hate him because he's doing all he can to convince her i'm a bad person.. With lies ofcouse.
!) Jealously is a choice. She cannot "make " you jealous.
2) Since you do not even like her, you should not care about anything she does. It is none of your business.
3) Hate? Seriously... you DO need to grow up.
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Old 02-02-2016, 07:40 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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1) She is definitely making me jealous, bacause weeks ago she also sent me snapchat selfie with him.
2) I never said I liked her. She's just hot.
3) Well I have to hate him because he's doing all he can to convince her i'm a bad person.. With lies ofcouse.
If she's doing this, ^^^ it sounds like she is doing things a "bad person" would do.

On the one hand you say she's making you jealous, then you call the guy who's telling you the same thing a liar.

What do you want?
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Old 02-02-2016, 07:48 AM
 
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!) Jealously is a choice. She cannot "make " you jealous.
2) Since you do not even like her, you should not care about anything she does. It is none of your business.
3) Hate? Seriously... you DO need to grow up.
1) But she can try to make me right? I'm just asking why would she do this.
2) I said i emotionaly don't like a girl I'm texting now. Probably because i still love that girls whos trying to make me jealous..
3) Well I can't like a guy who is trying to make a girl who once loved to don't like me.
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Old 02-02-2016, 07:55 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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We really can't tell you why.

You'll grow up soon enough and more than likely forget about them all.
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Old 02-02-2016, 08:27 AM
 
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Grow up.

Ignore her. Don't text, talk or snapchst her. Problem solved.
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Old 02-02-2016, 08:31 AM
 
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I'm sorry, but how old are you? If you have broken up, end the contact with her. It's as simple as that.
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